My wife doesnot want to go for oral sex, even after 8 yrs of marriage and lot of convincing.Pl. give tips.?

Answer 1

if it's been that long maybe you need to find out why! maybe suggest to her of seeing a marriage c/o to work this out..let me ask you something? how important is this to you? I mean after 8yrs..you wanted tips..trying talking to her and she how she feels about it...good luck

Answer 2

Things that sincere Christian should avoid is not limited to what the Bible is specific in banning. As an example, see this statement unequivocally: "The marriage is honorable among all marital bed and spotless, because God the judge fornicate and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4) Even non-Christians and those who do not know anything about Bible correctly conclude that the verse prohibits adultery. This and other biblical texts make it clear that God condemns sexual relations between a married person and another that is not their legitimate spouse. But to say of two single people who practice oral sex? Many teenagers say there is nothing wrong with that, because it is not sexual. Can a Christian considered oral sex as something pure? Hebrews 13:4 and 1 Corinthians 6:9 God disapproves state that both adultery and fornication to (the Greek porn). What exactly is fornication? The Greek term involves the use of the genitals with intent immoral, both natural and so pervert. Includes all forms of illicit sexual relations outside of marriage approved by the Scriptures. Thus, it includes oral sex, even though many teenagers around the world have been informed, or come to the conclusion, that this practice is acceptable. The true Christian does not guide his way of thinking and their actions by the opinions of "conversations error and misleading of the mind." (Titus 1:10) They follow the highest standard, that of Scripture. Instead of looking for excuses to practice oral sex, they believe that biblically it is fornication, or porn, and train according to their conscience. - Acts 21:25, 1 Corinthians 6:18, Ephesians 5:3.

Answer 3

You should have tried to see her inclinations toward this BEFORE marriage so I'm sorry to say that you may not be getting head unless she changes her mind. If she's been adamant for 8 years, I don't know how that's going to change unless you give her an offer she can't refuse in exchange.

Answer 4

Have you spoken to your wife about this issue? Maybe she's not into because of personal reasons. Communication is the key to a successful marriage. If you are not communicating with your wife about this and you are having issues because you want it and she is not willing to do it, then it would seem as though it would be a 'one sided' problem if you will.
If I were you, I would speak to her about it and get on the same page as her.
Hope that this helps!

Answer 5

She doesn't have to! What is with you guys out there thinking that once you are married you can demand anything you want? Maybe she doesn't like the look, smell or taste of mister wiggly and just doesn't want to go there. There are no "tips" for getting her to do it. That is called force and c an be construed as a form of rape. Are you a rapist or a husband?

Answer 6

Try to find out her reasons for not wanting to do it she may have some mental or religious reasons she may not want to do it. Never try to make a women do something she doesn't want to do.

Answer 7

Yeah, give up the fight. She's not going to change her mind at this point.

Answer 8

then dont give her oral. you cant force her to do it, because that would make you a control freak.

Answer 9

somebody don't like it. just accept it!

Answer 10

its her choice and ur loss!