Please, I need some great advice soon!
I accidently cheated on my GF with this hot chick on campus, so I wanted to tell her because I don't like to lie, and I also wrote her a poem.
Most of the people on Yahoo Answers approved of the poem and said it was good, so I went to her tonight and got on one knee and confessed and read her my poem.
She slapped me in the head with a textbook and walked off in tears.
It kind of knocked me out for a few seconds, and when I woke up she was gone.
What Should I do now??????
2006-08-29 18:33:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Dude, call the hot chick on campus and see if she'll date you. Otherwise you are pretty much screwed. If this happens again next time, make sure that the girl doesn't have anything to hit you with and make sure that you can get out of the way. Knelling in front of her and telling her that you "hit it" with another girl....bad idea!
2006-08-29 18:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pray 4 Mojo 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First stop saying that this was an accident..second i hope you used protection (you cant tell a persons HIV status by looking).
I don't understand why in America/Americans feel that it is kinda understandable or permissible for a man to brake a vow of trust one so intimate and personal..also which could carry dire consequences (get checked twice and not the same for the women; you are in college (the numbers are very high for HIV/AIDS in colleges) use your thinking head.. hindsight is 20/20 nough said on that.
realize that you hurt her deeply which you should have realized before hand.. now you defiantly know.. alas i do not know what you can say or do.. and to think that you asked Yahoo folks for advice on this matter (young people to whom our future belongs... think!).
I know that this may never heal once trust is broken in this manner seldom is it repaired/gained again.
2006-08-29 18:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's already covered the whole "How can you accidentally have sex with someone" so I'll cover something else.
She slapped you in the head with a textbook so hard that it knocked you out for a few seconds.
You had to wake up in order to know she was gone.
So, I must ask, How in the h ell do you know she walked off in tears?
She could have been giggling hysterically. How would you know-you were KNOCKED OUT to the point where you had to WAKE UP!
She could have very well been thanking her lucky stars to have gotten rid of a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!
Stop making excuses and start taking responsibility.
2006-08-30 07:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A poem is not gonna make up for f***ing around on your girl. You screwed up when you screwed around and now you have to live with it.
If you cared for her in the first place you wouldn't have cheated (and don't give us this BS about 'accidently').
2006-08-29 18:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by jane_debbra_harper 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well how can it be an accident? werent u thinking abotu the consequences of what this would do to your relationship with your bf? maybe she knocked you out to get some sense into you! writing a poem wil not help her feel better. you can call it the end of this relationship...like they say once a cheter always a cheater
you obviously choose the "hot girl" over your gf. if you say no then you wouldnt have cheated in the first place!
what you should do now is feel like an asshole for hurting her..........
2006-08-29 18:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud. Really move on. Cheating is unexceptable. She will always have that to hold over your head, and the guilt is painful. Seriously, you screwed this one up. Lesson hopefully learned, if you care about someone so much then you don't cheat on them. Regardless. It's called self discipline, and having boundaries that you just don't cross.
2006-08-29 22:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You idiot! First of all cheating is not an accident. It's a conscious decision you made and if you feel badly about it then you'll just have to live with the consequences. Second of all, what right did you have to hurt that girl by making her your confessor? None at all! It's guys like you that make women so distrustful of the rest of us who actually toe the line and you disgust me.
2006-08-29 18:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone. Pray that she's smart enough to dump your cheating butt. I've had men cheat on me & I've ALWAYS told them to hit the road & don't come back. I seriously doubt your cheating was accidental. You chose to step out on your girlfriend. Be glad she only knocked you senseless with her textbook. I would've done more, Harm None Rule be damned.
2006-08-29 18:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Belle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't accidently have sex with someone.
It's not like can you trip and "whoops" have sex.
You deserved a textbook to the head.
You should find a new girlfriend because the last one is gone.
2006-08-30 00:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You accidently cheated, yep that happens. Why don't women belive that? I know the married men I sleep with usually accidently trip and fall into me. LOL
2006-08-29 18:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋