He's been on his cell speaking very low and he takes it everywhere he goes, even the bathroom.
2006-08-29 18:28:57 · 40 answers · asked by jambabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My bf cheats on me behind my back. I never caught him talking to someone on the phone nor even glanced at other women.
So, if my bf could cheat.. so your husband! I'm sorry, he seems to be cheating on you. Don't make it obvious, but start spying and investigate now.
2006-08-29 18:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the cell phone bill. Sometimes you can see recent calls on the internet or if possible check his voice mail. If he is on the phone for more than 15 minutes with the same number. I caught my husband by checking his voice mail. We are no longer together after 8 years. I really believe there is a 7 year itch. If his phone is off when you try to call him. If your not having sex often. If he is not showing you any feelings of being in love with you. You need to confront him. Let him know how you feel about your relationship and ask him how he feels about it. Good Luck...
2006-08-29 18:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is cheating, chances are you are right, he is. Wait until he goes to sleep and get your hot little hands on his cellphone. Check out the incoming and out going numbers. If they have been erased, he has something to hide. If they have not been erased copy down all of the numbers that are unfamiliar to you, do the same with the phone book, even numbers listed under a mans name.
Take the numbers to a pay phone and call them. If a chic answers ask for him, if she asks who you are, tell her that you are a woman he gave a STD to and you are looking for him.
Don't tell her that you are his wife because if you do the next call she makes will be to him with...Your wife just called me. BUT if you remain just a girl looking for a guy that gave you a STD her next call to him will be..YOU SOB YOU HAVE A STD. That will cool that deal,and give you time to get the facts together before you confront him.
Please, while you suspect he is cheating be very careful that you do not catch something a trip to the Doctor wont cure.
2006-08-29 18:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's taking pics of his poop? Phone sex on the pot? Maybe he's just wierd. If you think he is, he probably is. It's not just the cell phone thing, it's more than that. Hiding in dark places and talking to friends he never had before, talking less to you, comes home late leaves early or at odd times, not hungry, bored etc. All signs of drugs, Alcohol, gambling and addictions to new feelings.(woman or men) all the same. If he isn't cheating , he soon will be.
2006-08-29 18:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could there be another explanation, like work? Does he get immediately defensive if you ask about it? Are there any other warning signs, like being out late or not where he said? Has he done it before? Have you ever caught him in a lie?
If you don't trust him, and have reason not to trust him, look into it. Trust is important to a relationship, if you're feeling this nervous there's something wrong somewhere. Talk to your man.
For your sake, I hope it's just work, or a loved one having a difficult time... good luck.
2006-08-29 18:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello young lady , why you are so keen to spoil your marriage and peace at home to allow your self to think negatively . Better restart changing your detective nature to lead a happy and peacefull life ahead .
You should be happy that he is coming back every night to just sleep with you only . Pl make sure stop nagging , complaining and checking his movements , better start taking more intrest in his good health and charming atmosphere in the house for a long meaningful love life . Good luck .
2006-08-29 18:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check the cell bill for the phone numbers that he is calling, or even check his cell phone if you can.
I would think that if he is cheating there would be other signs or changes in his behavior.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 18:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chewie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BUSTED! The real way to find out is follow him on one of those odd times he leaves the house. Or check out his cel-ma-tel bill and see who he's been talking with. Besides, a woman's intuition is 9 times out of 10, correct! Go with your gut feelings girl!!!
For your sake, I hope he's just planning some surprise for you and it's not what you're thinking.
2006-08-29 18:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't MEAN he is cheating but it does mean he is hiding something. You need to ask questions and when you catch him in a lie then you find proof. But be careful because you might find something you are not ready for, so if you are not going to leave him then you should leave it alone.
2006-08-29 18:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Creole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most tell tale signs are:
dressing better
showering more often
wearing more cologne
always late coming home
tries to hide calls or phone
going out more than usual
accusing you
and not giving you any more than they have too
2006-08-29 18:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋