im 14 and a girl. i have a bf i really like. but im falling for my best friend who is a girl. we have these moments where our eyes lock and its hard to look away. its weird.. but i really like mybf. im confused and dont know what to do. is it my hormones that are messing with me, or do u think im bi?
2006-08-29 18:22:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no i started to like her around september of last year, but now it has just gotten stronger. its weird, but ive had my bf for 2 years.
2006-08-30 06:58:02 · update #1
What you're going through is VERY normal for both girls and boys at any age of 10-19 or so. At this time, you're trying to still figure yourself and who your REALLY are. Many parents try to alter this by making you into what THEY want and in the end this delays your self-discovery period until your mid-20's and trust me, you don't want to wait till then to figure out who you really are.
If what you are feeling is always on your mind, you should tell your best-friend about how you feel. i would approciate in sort of a "isn't it wierd that i have these feelings for you???" question and just stay quite. Wait for her to respond and go from there. If she is a homo-phobe; which she might be, then you can still play it off as a joke but if she isn't and opens up to you then you now have options and go from there.
The fact that you have a boy-friend complicates things though. When you realize that there might be something w/ your best-friend, i don't think you should tell your boy-friend. Since your young, things like this can remain a secret. If he were to find out and be cool w/ it at first, later on he could easily use it against you if the two of you break-up. This would NOT be a good thing.
Simply do what you're heart tells you too, you'll never go wrong.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 22:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by c.R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey....chill baby. your just going through an experimental stage here. happened to me when i was your age. it's all about about feeling good honey, so if you want a girl then go for it. see how it feels. if its weird, then stick to the boys. the only way you'll ever find out what happenening is by experimenting. and if you like both your bf and your bff, then ur bi. not a bad thing. there are lotsa ppl out there who r bi, and even married with kids. i know being bi is a bit frowned upon, but trust me theres nothing wrong with it.
2006-08-29 19:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by holliway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel...u could be bi but because of ur age its not the right tym to tel many girls have tht same feeling and still turn out to be straight so ur not the only one.
you may really lyk your friend but are just starting to c her in another light, if as you get older u r starting to feel lyk this towards other girls then u actually are bi.
but dnt mke up ur mind to soon.
2006-08-30 03:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a christian girl and im going to tell you now its neitha.Jus dnt act on anything because you could damage alot of relationships. Pray about it and if you aren't into that then i suggest you talk to ur bf and bff and get some counseling.Good luck
2006-08-29 18:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be going through a phase. Or you could be bi. Remember that being bi or gay is totally acceptable and cool. Talk to an adult or doctor to sort things out.
2006-08-29 18:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same kind of thing, only it was my 2 best friends, a guy and a girl, who were dating...i finally admitted to myself that i was bi just a few weeks ago...if you think you might be, talk to someone about it...i went to this website to talk to people
2006-08-29 19:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be either. is it just with your friend or other girls too? it could just be that you really like your friend and youre confused that it might be love. just dont go jumping to conclusions. wait for a year or 2 and see how you feel then.
2006-08-29 18:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who know's. You may or may not be bi. give it some time and see what happens. It could just be your hormones going silly.
2006-08-29 21:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by Trac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mite just b hormones....im around your age and nothig like that has happened 2 me but i cud imagin it...just dnt worry bout it 4 now
2006-08-29 18:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Stubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋