How does it make you feel? If she does respect your wish to be left alone, how do you feel about her? When is it normally that you ask for space and time?
2006-08-29 18:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's my boyfriend who has asked for space..
2006-08-29 18:37:23 · update #1
actually, there is plenty space where she is not around....
you are not living togather ya? just make your schedule better...
2006-08-29 18:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl respects the man's wishes and leaves him alone, the man will think that 1) the girl's gullible 2) the girl can be easily manipulated. She'll go fetch a bone on the moon even if I'd tell her to do so.
But if a girl doesn't respect the man's wishes, then the man will think 1) she's choking me 2) she doesn't trust me.
To begin with, if a man asks for personal space, it's code red for a girl because things are already not working well.
2006-08-30 01:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about respecting her wishes to be close to you and how about the idea that maybe your lucky enough to find a girl willing
to be there for you communication is the key to a relationship not space,only scientist should respect space if you need space you should go to nasa and take a trip to the moon and let her get on with her life with someone who will treat her with a more proper respect.
2006-08-30 22:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by BLINK W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a mixed bag. She is most likely not backing off because she is concerned about your state of mind I.E your well being,rath er than a lack of respect. If I can make a suggestion, at a time when you are not requesting space, tell her how important your space/time is to you and that she should not take it personally. Additionally tell her you would do the same for her if she asked. I went through much the same thing w/ my woman early in our relationship. Again I suspect misguided good intention, rather than disrespect.
2006-08-30 01:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you ask for space and time, it means you need some free time. If you want to stay with her don't over do it with too much of your own space and time. You can lose her. ( And you will be telling yourself, "Damn I wish that I can hit that again.") If you ask her too nicely, you won't get respect and won't be taken seriously. If she really loves you, you can be an asshole and she will forgive you. If you really love her don't mess around with any other girl because it will bite you in the ***.
2006-08-30 01:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Marcel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love somebody let them go. If they love you they will come back. Never try to pressure anybody to do something they do not want, as it leads to resentment. You are however allowed to ask why he need this before you give him the space he needs. Maybe "the girl" is clingy etc. and she will need some time to adjust.
PS! Remeber that if it was meant to be it will happen.
2006-08-30 01:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by tjorhom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask a woman for space once and she didn't take it to heart so I had to let her go
2006-08-30 11:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um when we hang out and like if i feel turned on and i dont want her to know i want her to go away for a lil bit so i can calm down a lil but she doesnt so il liek always on and it gets me a lil annoyed especially wen im walkin or standing....
2006-08-30 01:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by GuitarPunk2512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody deserves space
2006-08-30 01:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. Just kidding. Tell her you are totally streessed out and she is not helping .
2006-08-30 02:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Joy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋