how do u know ur husband is cheating on u?

Question

how do u know he is telling lies abt his job, his connection of people, his fantasy for other females, whom he loves the most etc.however, he does have sex with his wife, he does not play with his baby etc...................what is the solution! serious answers please!

Answer 1

There is no surefire way to tell if he's cheating. If you have any suspicion whatsoever then I would seriously suggest considering marriage counseling. It sounds like there may be mistrust issuges, be honest with your hubby about them and schedule for counseling! Good luck and God Bless!

Answer 2

if u r in doubt then check it out-either start doing some investigating yourself or hire a professional to due it for u. stop by his place of employment unexpectedly (tell him u want to take him to lunch) to verify he's there when he says he is, if he has a cell phone-check the bill for unfamiliar numbers, (look those up online-www.whitepages.com has a reverse number search & if not found then call the number to see who & how it 's answered-make sure the number u r calling from doesn't show up on caller id-u can always say u dialed the wrong number when it's answered). as for the fantasy issue & whom he loves the most-all men fantasize-it's human nature, u can only believe whom he tells u he loves the most. as long as he isn't gone for long periods of time (esp late at night) & he is still engaging in sex w/ his wife then i don't think he's cheating but that's just my opinion

Answer 3

If he loves his wife, in time he will get closer to the baby. If he dresses nicer for work , look at your phone bill check it closer for numbers you do not know about., unexplained trips, Any liilte thing different can be a big hint. If he talks about other women that is better than hiding his feelings. Maybe he just has not grown up yet. Pem

Answer 4

dont jump 2 conclusions 2soon. try some investigations by urself or seek professional help.when u get enough evidence 2 substatiate ur suspicions, confront him but in a way that will make see reasons with u and make him feel sorry for his actions above all show him love that is if u still want 2 have him. best wishes.

Answer 5

Straight up and ask him. Tell him what you have noticed, about his lies, his fantasies. If his eyes do not look into yours, or his lips start quivering, he's reluctant or pauses on the answer, there's your answer. Make sure you watch his gestures at all times. It's just like in a game of Poker, he will have a tell.

Answer 6

Listen to what he says and if you find it doubtful yourself.. it means there's something not right, believe me.. doubting means something not right you need to figure out what it is.. it is just your heart give you an alarm to be more cautious.. as long as you are not being just paranoid, try to think from both sides so you will think clearly and be objective.

Answer 7

lack of sex ,late nights at work
doesnt pay much attention to you
you probably need to talk to him about your concerns but dont accuse him just tell him that its the vibe your getting

good luck

Answer 8

Trust your instincts. and get proof! If you have to ask the question something is up. My husband was sleeping with my sister, who happened to be my best friend too. I wanted to die.

Answer 9

HIRE A DETECTIVE or ask him FLAT OUT IF HE IS CHEATING......
Depends on how much you have to lose when the TRUTH COMES OUT.....
If kids are involved, do they know what is going on??? BEST OF LUCK......

Answer 10

Trust your instinct. It's the voice of God.