Do you think a spouse has the ability to totally CHANGE their partner's personality & character?

Question

not intentionally...but, inherently change their personality

Answer 1

technically ppl cant change others if they themselves dont wish to change, but it is also tru that their characteristics rub off on their partners so influencing their characters thus creating change

Answer 2

The love of a good man or woman can absolutely change a person's personality and character. My parents are a perfect example of this. My mother grew up the oldest out of a family of seven children. Her mother was abusive both physically and emotionally; needless to say she was shy, soft-spoken, insecure and looking to just get married and move out of the house. Well, my father fell in love with her and they were married for 42 years before she passed away. As the years went by, she was the owner of her own business, and not shy nor insecure anymore. She had grown up and experienced a different kind of lifestyle because of what my father had brought to their marriage. He had good, kind, smart, educated family and friends, so she learned how other's lives were, and how life could be for her. She was an extroidinary woman, and even a better mother. Yep she changed alright, my father shared his life with her even before they'd met.

Answer 3

My husband is fairly conservative in public and at domicile. In each and every of the years I even have be responsive to him he has been very predictable. as quickly as we lived interior the rustic I walked the driveway at evening for workout, 4 around journeys on the force equaled a million mile. One evening i substitute into strolling in the direction of the domicile while he jumped out and reported "Im a Ninja". He substitute into wearing black sweats and hoodie. i substitute into so stunned i began giggling so problematic I approximately moist my pants.

Answer 4

I think when u truly love someone they bring the best out of you, and makes be and act like u never did b4 in some ways. So they make you want to be a better person and it makes you extremely happy so my answer is yes.

But also it could happen the other way around.

Answer 5

Yes , it is correct . See, when we restart living with some one else permanently , we are bound to start learning new way of life altogether to maintain peace and harmony in the home & new set of relations . And slowly we start leading our life that way without knowing or feeling the change in our earlier way of living style . Anyway it is a good question & learning .

Answer 6

I think some of who you are changes becuase you are not longer a YOU --but a WE. Some of the way your spouse is will rub off on you. Unfortunately I know this because my happy go lucky brother has changed his personality because his wife is so seirous. It's sad, but it does happen.

Answer 7

To some degree, yes. But this change has more to do with their willingness to compromise in the relationship for the sake of harmony. You can't change them totally. They are still their own person. Besides, you marry them for who they are, not what you want them to be.

Answer 8

Yes it can happen. My husband was different when we got married. But over the years he changed alot. became more down to earth and a great husband for 26 years. Pem

Answer 9

no not totally, but some people have the ability to control and put their partner into a position where they never feel their own self worth anymore and inturn their fun personality fades as their always deep in thought searching for what they can do to please their partner.....

Answer 10

No, I think that a person has to change because they want to not because of what we want. However, I think we can learn to love someone for who they are and accept them.
Change comes totally from within, to love someone is to love them for who they are and not the illusion of what we want them to be.
Maybe we can change our expectations!