My fiance has been emailing some chick, I read the email she sent. My fiance doesn't know I know about it and I haven't said anything to him about it because her email was just asking how he was doing and when our wedding was coming along. Could she be just a friend or should I ask him who she is?
2006-08-29 17:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have a great deal of trouble trusting, because every man I have ever loved has broke my heart time after time. So yes I have troubles trusting my fiance.
2006-08-29 18:01:58 · update #1
#1. if you don't trust him completely then you shouldn't be getting married.
Sounds like they are just friends. If you bring up the point that you have not trusted him, and read his e-mail might get a argument started. I wouldn't worry about it, but you should really consider what this might be showing you. The foundations to a good marriage is: Trust, Communication, and Love!!
Good luck!!!
2006-08-29 17:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It Also Could Be, That It's Someone Helping Him With Wedding Plans. There's A Million Reasons Why This Girl Is Emailing Him, Confront It Now, If He's Hesitant To Answer, She Could Be Helping With The Wedding. If He Says, "Oh, Just A Friend" And Wants To End The Conversation, Then, You Have Something To Worry About. Why Don't You Go And Get Yourself A "Male" Companion Online.
2006-08-30 01:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be reading his email. How do you think you can start a marriage with this amount of trust. Now that you did read it you should see that it is just a friend by the type of email it was. If you trust him let it go and don't read his email again. If you don't trust him don't marry him and move on.
2006-08-30 01:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about your trust issues before you get married to him. More than likely, this girl is a friend - just a friend. But you have some feelings that he has no control over. This lack of trust is your "thing" to deal with, not his. These feelings are all in your head, you would have them if he was a saint or a villian.
Maybe you should ask to meet this girl. You might end up liking her
2006-08-30 01:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pitiful Meg. You should be ashamed of yourself for thinking the worst. Also for snooping into his email. I think you should take a step back and have a long hard look at your ability to trust someone you supposedly love enough to marry.
Get a grip
2006-08-30 00:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear worried bride to be-
I would just plainly ask him who this other chick is and how they know eachother. Who knows, it could be a friend from grade school! If you are still in doubt, become interested. For example, tell him you would like to meet her because she "seems like a neat person". Make any excuse to become interested. Thats my 2 cents.
2006-08-30 01:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hockey51319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be a cousin or a friend. Just ask him. However you are getting married, she did ask about that, you should be able to trust him.
2006-08-30 00:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she say, it might be his mama for all you know unless you have read what he said. But I would be suspicious of a fiance, it is too crucial right now. Good Luck
2006-08-30 00:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, or even better e-mail her and ask her. Be careful because people rarely tell the truth when they are having an affair. I do hope that things are not as you suspect they may be.
2006-08-30 01:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY YOU HAVE TO ASK ? CANT SHE HAVE ANY FRIENDS ?
2006-08-30 00:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋