I ve this friend (who is also my room mate) ; is arrognat and self centered, he has rarely been good to me. Now we are gonna shift ourselves 2 another house as his brother (who is also one of my roommate is gonna get married & will be shifting 2 our present room). So NOW this guy is acting very nice to me , he wants me to search t room for us, he stays in his room (playing PC Games most of the time) keeps asking me bout my search. What am I suppose to do now? Dump that a****** or what.
2006-08-29 17:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by Ryon R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get rid of him.... as soon as possible..
be straight and oppose him on face directly ... i mean to say, have a small fight... and be confident. you can get amany other good companions.
do not suffer...
2006-08-29 17:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by MADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls voice out that you are no mans slave !! You have to start to voice out ur feelings, otherwise people will take you for granted.
Not only for this particular incident but for many more such problems in the future too, speak out ur emotions ! It always makes things easier & much better. I tell you don't worry about the consequences, if a person who is not able to understand & respect you & your emotion is going away from you coz of this,
let him/her go away, better one is gona come shortly. World is big !!
2006-08-30 05:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Raji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you be nice to him all the time....
this is ur time to get your own way....don't help cus he doesn't care about u.
Look after urself because people like that come and go in ur life, it all depends on how u deal with these sort of people. Be confident and don't be afraid.
2006-08-30 13:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now he is asking u to search for a room and tomorrow he will surely ask for more!!
get rid of him at once...
2006-09-02 06:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by sin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to do all the dirty work of looking for a new place while he slacks at home with his games.. if i were you, i'd look for a new place for myself (bachelor's pad) or get another friend for a roomate.. I'd totally agree.. dump him.. find a new roomate!
2006-08-30 00:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you and it doesnt make sense in complying to his wishes, let him know how you feel, if he reacts unreasonably, that should be it.
2006-08-30 02:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by shyamvallabh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the guy that been rude.
2006-08-30 00:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want to make relation with you he want u to talk with him
2006-08-30 01:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by munmun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋