Iam 28 yrs. old. 5'4",125lbs. and I like dating and sex with chubby(not obese) men.I know they tend to treat me better but I like to rub their bellys I get aroused why?
2006-08-29 17:34:54 · 32 answers · asked by kitty f 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Im looking for a physcological point of view. Serious answers only please.
2006-08-29 18:00:44 · update #1
I have not recived many answers please help me
2006-09-02 15:22:45 · update #2
I have not recived many answers please help me
2006-09-02 15:22:51 · update #3
There's nothing wrong with chubby men! Why are you even concerned enough to ask this question? There lies your issue!
2006-09-06 05:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are co relating sex with skin and its not bad. There has to be more than one factor you would look at. Being chubby alone cannot be it. Generally chubby guys are the 'wit & humour' types more eloquent and the happy ones. Try to think if there is more than the belly rubbing that attracts you in this species. Chubby and tall are the best, lest you are too short.
2006-09-06 06:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe you thinks its cute. Some people have a fetish. Maybe that's what turns you on. Its not a bad thing, its just what your in to. Like some people love feet, and others like breast or abs. You just like a little extra loving. There's nothing wrong with that. I think its cute! Also most guys I know that know they look good, tend to treat women like crap. Because they know at any given day if they just get tired of there women they can go get another one. Sad but true!
2006-09-06 09:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask science to help you all day but I doubt it will satisfy your question or curiosity.
Why do any of us enjoy the sexual stimulation we enjoy? Who knows. Our sexual preference is ours and ours alone. Perhaps something in your past sparked this interest. Perhaps your father had a chubby belly and bounced you around all the time. Women who have extremely loving and caring fathers often seek out men like their fathers.
Being chubby (not fat or obese) since birth, however, I am certainly glad women like you exist. Thanks for giving all the chubs a vote of confindence!
2006-09-06 04:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by mellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what attracts you the most. Attraction is the gateway to love. I know people say looks don't matter, and sometimes that is true. But something always attracts a person to another. Rather it be friendship, courtship, business partner etc. You get what I mean. That is what attracts you, stocky men. I like fit guys myself....just something about those bodies.
2006-09-05 18:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these men are generally older than you, then it may be simply because you feel protected by them. I don't believe that there is any psychological explanation for your attraction. Some people just get turned on by unconventional things. You also may be getting aroused by the mere fact you are touching someone you care about.
2006-09-05 14:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by zosoo7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecure. You are feeling insecure in your life. A man with strong outlook gives you the sense of security.
You also have a lower self-esteem than , may be an average . You are afraid that you will not be treated nicely . I don't know you have been hurted before or not , or disappointed or not , but I think you are looking for someone who will not hurt you , not necessary physically , but words can hurt too.
Tell me , do you think you have anything that you think others can not accept you ? or will laugh at you if they find out ?
All the above are guesses , unless I know more about you , I can say more accurately .
2006-09-04 15:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you have been hurt in the past by a "hunk" and being attracted to a chubby man is a self defense mechanism. Deep down in side you may feel they are "safe" and less likely to be hit on by other girls and cheat on you.
Or maybe you think of them as cuddly bear and they really do turn you on.
2006-09-06 12:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a girl that likes to cuddle. And chubby men remind you of a teddy bear Plus you feel safe,and they won't treat you bad all they will do is love you a that's what you and every other girl wants.
2006-08-29 17:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by robert d 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was "straight" I dated chubby guys. I think it was because of sense of security. As far as it turning you on to rub their bellies, i have no idea. It could be something deeper but then it could be just a thing you like. Dont questoin it.
2006-09-05 14:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Snuz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋