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i have primary custody of my son. his mother gave him up willingly. after 9months she desided she wanted him back. so she comes to my house and takes him by force. after a fist fight with her new husband (witch i won) she drove off in her truck with my kid. the cops were called and even tho i had the only papers saying i had custody they let her take him any way. this is bullshit. if i was to do that i would be in jail. there is no equal rights when your a man. my lawyer dont seem to give a dam,i havent seen or heard from my kid in three weeks. the cops wont do any thing about it. im trying to go to court but there in no hurry. is there a lawyer out there that specializes in getting men their kids? especally when i should have him already? please help

Answer 1

Something sounds weird here. If you have legal court papers saying you have primary custody, there is NO WAY the police would let your ex take your child. You need a new lawyer and you need to talk to the police about why they let her go. That isn't right.

Answer 2

Unless you've got a legal document stating you were the custodial parent with sole custody, she can take him. Sounds like you didn't or she'd be behind bars. In any state, it's kidnapping for a parent to take a child from their custodial parent. She may have given him to you willingly, but if you don't have the papers stating that, he's free game. Get yourself a PI and find out where she is and go get him. In the meantime, get to your courthouse and file the paperwork for custody. Good luck.

Answer 3

If your son was taken from your custody by your ex without your permission, isn't that kidnapping?

Also, who started the fight -- because there could be assault / battery charges involved. If he assaulted you, then you may be able to hold that against any claims they attempt to make to justify their actions.

You might also be able get a restraining order against your ex ever coming to pick up your son except as indicated by the judge.

You're right -- not the cops' job... it's the judge's and lawyers' jobs.

this is all just guesses, but something worth looking at

Good luck

Answer 4

If you could prove custody to the police and they still let her take your child, that is a law suit. If you won the fight, how did they still get the child. Your lawyer needs to be fired, and a new one found. Make sure they specialize in family law. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

This broad was only thinking of her self not what is in the best interest of the child she probably wants him back for the child support also you may want to find a reliable attorney who will listen to you the client which keeps him or her in business if you are serious about getting the child back then you must do this before she files a motion for child support remember courts are usually partial to mothers I know because my Husbands gone through a complete nightmare w/his ex I wish you well.

Answer 6

If the court has given you primary custody (I assume you mean your the custodial parent), I don't understand how she can take your child. You need to find a good divorce lawyer. Good luck.

Answer 7

Wow that is harsh. Obviously she doesn't give a rats *** about her own childs emotional health and stability. If I was you, I would find them and take the boy back however you have to do it and that will be the end of it. This is ridiculous and she is a stupid you know what. Let her pay for the lawyers and stuff. What a crock.

Answer 8

Check out this website, they have a lot of really good resources for dads going through the same thing that you are. Also check out the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, there is a link on this site to them and they helped a friend of mine a ton. If nothing else they can point you in the right direction. Good luck!!

Answer 9

primary custody?

you mean full custody?

if you mean full custody then you should go to the police station and file a kidnaping report, if the police refuse to get involved in it then go to the FBI, and also go through family court.

if it is some type of joint custody or something then its a whole different story.

Answer 10

Gosh I sure hope you find help soon. This shouldn't happen this way. Law should be respected equally for men and women. Sure wish I could help, but I can't other than wish you luck and offer support.