We continued having sex after our marriage, and one night she says "If you want anymore from me you'll have to take it".I'm like WHAT? Are you suggesting I rape you?"Of course I'll have to put up a fight" she says.And shes serious!How weird is that?Especially since she claims her uncle raped her when she was 15
2006-08-29 17:19:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it!
She is trying to get you big time. Take it from a woman who has crazy family.
She wants you to do this so she can say that you forced sex upon her. In the end, she'll get money.
That's what she is after.
Discontinue sex with this lunatic.
Anyone that was raped doesn't want to relive it in roleplay, trust me. I was raped at 13, I have since learned to trust men but would NEVER want to relive that.
2006-08-29 17:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider it as weirdness on her part to ask you that. She may be having a form of obsession at the moment which relates to her having sex with you. Sometimes, a woman fantasizes in an instant and this fantasy may turn into an obsession which will not leave her mind until it is done.
Just support her to make her fantasy come true for once but with precaution not to physically hurt her during the process. See if that obsession passes away after that. If not, talk to her and ask her why she's changed suddenly her mood in having sex escapades with you. And try to address that revelation (if she confides in you) with understanding and support.
2006-08-29 17:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You harm your ex-spouse because you cheated on her and betrayed her matter on you. you ought to were straightforward mutually with her on the initiating and dealt with issues otherwise by using perhaps asking for a tribulation separation so that you'll be able to handle your sexuality. You made blunders, each body makes blunders. yet, no need crying over spilt milk, what's performed is performed. it is going to take time on your ex-spouse to forgive (or perhaps longer if in any respect to ignore the harm). What you ought to do as she looks on good words with your household, is ask your mom to enable slip even as she talks mutually with her that you comprehend you made a mistake in treating her so badly and sense very remorseful. that's the first step. sense free that your ex-spouse is doing nicely, inspite of how you acted. enable her bypass. it is going to take time, yet settle for that she's lengthy gone, mourn the relationship you had, keep in concepts the coolest situations and study from blunders. Then get busy with assembly new human beings, bypass new places the position you ought to satisfy different bisexuals, take in a diverse interest. In time you'll end comparing her to others. not many instantly females ought to settle for a bi-sexual better half who will probably have yet another similar sex relationship as there must be emotions of jealousy and shortage of self assurance like in the different relationshp triangle of both sexes. you want to satisfy someone who thinks and feels a similar as you do about sexuality for a relationship to paintings. good success.
2016-11-23 13:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it....it's a trap! You'll get rough and leave bruises and marks. And your semen inside her. She'll scratch you and leave bite marks on you.
Before you know it the cops will be arresting you....and you're gonna say what? It was a joke....she wanted me to rape her?
All the phyical evidence will be collected and you'll be someone's little ***** in prison for a long time.
2006-08-29 17:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful she might have something up her sleeve. Don't have sex with her anymore. That's tacking getting it on with your ex. Then why in the first place did you divorce? Sounds like your desperate. Move on to another woman and have a fresh start!
2006-08-29 17:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the taboo of saying no. I think us women like it because it stems back from the cave man days. Men are suppose to be strong and take what they want. She wants you to be strong and fight for what you want....................her. She wants to feel that sexy.
I am sure she wants to just play. Not rape her. She means take it, be forceful. I dont know how to explain it, but rape is mean and awful. Taking what you want is very erotic. Have fun.
2006-08-29 17:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange as it may sound.........I myself was raped as a child..and still to this day fantasize being forced to have sex ( i'm 46 ) NOT KEWL I KNOW, SICK MAYBE. I caution you only to make sure she's not trying to set up for some type of legal trouble!!!
2006-08-29 17:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by LuvyDuvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange fantasy, yes. If you like the idea then roll with it. If you're uncomfortable with the whole idea then just ignore the request. Ex's are EX'S for a reason don't forget.
2006-08-29 17:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't risk it. It might be a trap. I've heard of guys being trapped over things simpler than a faked rape.
2006-08-29 17:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is your ex wife, you shouldn't be having sex with her in the first place, and this whole things stinks of a setup, you force yourself on her and she goes to the cops and you are sunk
2006-08-29 17:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋