Im still a virgin?

Question

Im 16 guy and a virgin. Should I be proud? or should I find a hooker? lol

Kind of sucks tho, I mean I havent had a girlfriend that Ive dated, since I was like really young, so any ideas or whatever?

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You are young. Do you really want your first time to be with a skanky hooker??? Just be patient and it will happen. Don't obsess about it.

Answer 2

Being a virgin is a great thing. Once you give up for virginity (before marriage) everything seems to go down hill. I swear that's true. Once you lose your virginity you'll feel a bond with that person forever - no matter if you care for them anymore or not. And that can be really confusing at time. I'm married and I still think about my first (the only one I had before my husband), not in a "I miss you" way or anything weird, but just think of him. Don't rush sex. It's not even that great with all of the worries on pregnancy and STD's floating around out there. There is a lot of fun stuff that you can do that doesn't have to be intercourse. Good luck with everything and have a great night!

Answer 3

I'm 15 and I'm a virgin and I'm proud. Don't find a hooker wait for someone you really care about. My boyfriend isn't but he respects my decision. Hey you don't have to worry about STD's or being a dad at 16 if your a virgin.

Answer 4

hey man im almost 18 a girl and still a virgin...and im not fat or anything haha. Yeah be proud of it, all the kids these days are running around screwing each other catching all types of nasty stuff.. Crabs man...like who wants to deal with that?! So anyway wait it out til your with the right person. Dont go looking for someone cuz thats kinda creepy.. asking every other girl if they want to have sex, never a good way to go about things. Yeah so when your with the right girl or guy I guess i dont know how your swinging..you will know that its the right time.

Answer 5

You're still really young, and sex is over-rated at that age. Don't feel bad that you're a virgin, there's nothing wrong with it. In fact it's probably one of the smartest things you can do at your age to remain a virgin. You have entirely too many other things to worry about other than getting laid. Concentrate on school and other extracurricular activities, and when the time is right, it'll happen.

Answer 6

Oh good word dude YES be proud of that!!! Hell I'm proud of you for being a virgin!

Seriously, when you find the right gal (and you'll know it in your heart, trust me), and the time is right and you lose your virginity, it will be something special.

I was rather young when I lost mine, no I wasn't raped or anything bad. But I regret doing it because it wasn't special. And if you get a decent gal, and you tell her you're a virgin, hopefully she will have a bunch of respect for you.

Answer 7

im no expert but u should be proud ur still a virgin if u go get o hooker u will end up with a but of diseases like HIV and stuff like that

Answer 8

Be proud. I believe that people should be virgins until marriage. Don't care what others say. Kids who do it during highschool are the biggest losers on the face of the earth.

Answer 9

I think it's fine being a virgin at this age. I don't understand why you should hire a hooker. Isn't that a tab bit over the top?

Answer 10

Good grief.

Find a good hobby. A significant number of your contemporaries have never had sex. You can be proud if you want to be, but don't feel disturbed that you are still a virgin.

Learn to treat girls like people and look for friendship instead of sex. As things work out nature will take care of your sex life when you are ready.

And it sounds like you probably have a while before you'll be ready. Nothing to feel bad about there. You have plenty of time.