I would appreciate ANYBODY's input on this suject....
Why would a man,knowing how much you detest it...knows you thoughts thoroughly on the subject....Why would he still video tape the 2 of us together,then lie about it when I ask for the tape...then call me a putzzz for ERASING it?????????ANY and ALL opinions greatly appreciated...Have a Great Evening!!!!
2006-08-29 17:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by xaviersmother2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think he doesn't care how you feel and he's using you for whatever urges or fantasies suit him. I think if he's dishonest, inconsiderate, and he calls you names for not liking that he's dishonest and inconsiderate, you should do your best to erase any vestiges of him from your life. I'm not saying kill the guy, I'm saying dump him and try to keep him from being in your life in any way, shape, or form. Reason's being...
One; if he did it once, he'll do it again because he feels no remorse or shame.
Two; he might do worse next time.
Three; he'll probably post anything he's still got hidden over the internet, and you need to get rid of him as soon as possible so that he has less time to figure out more ways of invading your privacy without your consent or knowledge.
Four; you need to show him you mean business without any doubt in his mind that if he does anything like that again, a break-up is going to be the least of his troubles. Otherwise he's going to try to use that to get back at you later.
I'm truly sorry that happened. I could give you advise on how to not have that happen in the future with any other guy, but you probably wouldn't like it.
2006-08-29 17:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't know how to show you the respect you deserve and that you saying no didn't matter.
He obviously didn't think you would find or know of the tape and he is the type that thinks "no harm no fowl'. I think you have every right to rethink if this is the guy you really want, the sole basis of a relationship is trust and respect. I wouldn't want a guy that would not honor my feelings! No means No! Just like if you did the something to him that he didn't like, sounds like he is narcissistic and you should get a real man that can love and respect you back. Good luck!
2006-08-29 17:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop your relationship with him. He has no respect for you or your feelings. You can be assured of facing more trouble later on when you break up, which I am certain you will.
Only a selfish person interested in satisfying his own needs, would do things even at the very strong objection of the partner! Can you see yourself living with such a person for the rest of your life? If not, then cut it short and start on a new chapter of your life. Find another partner who respects you! There are many.
2006-08-29 17:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got a question for u that might solve this matter, Are u sure that this guy loves u? i think that u should leave him because to me he is planing on doing something bad with that tape.
2006-08-29 17:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by nick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
b/c he's a jerk. dump him. maybe first make sure that was the only tape. find someone who respects you and your wishes
2006-08-29 18:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by K S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is self centered, egotistical @sshole. Leave him, and get a real man, that will respect your wishes.
2006-08-29 17:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋