2006-08-29 16:50:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most likely nothing is wrong with him.
You didn't give his age. If he is somewhat new to sex, it is normal.
Many men have this problem even after years of sexual activity.
Be patient with him, it could be an embarrassment for him. Generally speaking a female's arousal takes longer to peak and last longer. A male's is somewhat opposite instant and intense.
Foreplay is important to give the female a head start in arousing.
Another thought is he may be able to try again in a hour or so after the first ejaculation.
Good Luck
2006-08-29 17:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by fred f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is lack of doing it... You will find that on the 2nd or 3rd try of the day will be longer. I would suggest giving him oral to start with and let him come, then on the 2nd go it should be slower. If he thinks he is going to come tell him to think of somthing unsexy for a mere moment... my mother in law usually works, then straddle him and do it.... I also find gently gripping the base of his penis for a moment helps... But usually thinking an unsexy thought for a moment is the best I have found... However use with caution and only let him think thgat thought for about 10 seconds then start him thinking sexy thoughts agian
2006-08-29 16:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They know what to do to ejaculate faster because the first time is just basically, finding his and your spot.
2016-03-27 00:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This used to happen to me! Tell him to jack off about 3 or 4 hours before you have sex and I bet he will last alot longer it helped me!
2006-08-29 18:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by duke4172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs counselling and training. The average guy should give you at least a 5 mins. job.
2006-08-29 16:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by winterspring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called premature ejaculation. That means he can't control himself. He should seek with doctor for help.
2006-08-29 18:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vicki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just means he can't control it . its called premature ejaculation some men have it and some don't
he needs to work on self control no matter how good it feels or should feel
2006-08-29 16:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somelike it hot.. better luck next time around, no worries, we produce millions of sperms and it will not consume until the age of 80's for males
2006-08-29 17:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tashkent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is use to watching too much porn and masturbating and when the real thing happens...he shoots his bullets too soon..tell him to stop watching porn and work on the moves he watches on film towards you.
2006-08-29 17:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shekoken P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is precoz girl he needs help now i just hear a friend of my husband didn't take care of it and to save his marriage he has to inject his penis before anything and he said is very painful
2006-08-29 16:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋