Whenever I see an attractive female, I get intimidated and become shy to say hi to her, meet her, and become friends with her. For some reason I start thinking that she may not be interested in becoming friends and has more tfriends han enough. I guess I am just afraid of rejection. What do hot chicks really think about a guy approaching them? Will they accept or reject him usually? Do they need friends? What if she is dating someone and a guy approaches her for friendship, would she reject him? I am lost. Girls act so wierd sometimes...
2006-08-29 16:44:01 · 10 answers · asked by answer seeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course us HOT chicks need Friends. And if they do reject you as a Friend they are too full of them in the first place. If they reject you then turn it around and make them feel like the looser. If you approach a girl and she's in a relationship and she rejects you than that only means that she's insecure and can't handle another guy even as a Friend. And remember guys are from Mars!!! Were not as complicated as you may think.
2006-08-29 16:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is true. Men are intimidated by attractive women, and it can be really aggravating because naturally you want to be approached and feel attractive like your friends are being. The thing is it appears that the more "medium" attractive women are more easily approached, I guess because guys figure they have a better chance? Eeehww? Does that sound mean? ....... because I don't mean for it to, it's just that's how it seems to work. Here's what I've figured out = Make yourself accessable, be the one to start the conversation, let them know that just because your pretty doesn't mean your conceited, or that your not interested. Go out of your way to show your interest in others. Make good eye contact, be outgoing. It's worked for me. Other than that I guess you'll have to stick with advice you get from men, they'll be the real experts on this one. Good Luck.
2016-03-27 00:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kathryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get over shyness, but there is no "cure." Most chicks won't reject you if you just are looking for friendship and being casual about talking to her. Try saying hi to a random attractive female some time. Or, look at her if she is walking towards you and wait until her eye catches yours then say hello.
2006-08-29 17:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive girls may be shy too and have difficulties approaching guys..attractive or not.
Most girls do expect guys to make the initital approach. Anything you feel is worth the effort, humiliation, hard work, practice or the occassional stutter...just go for it. It's the chance you are losing if you dont try.
2006-08-29 16:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically you have to build up your confidence. even though she may be attractive, that doesnt mean she isnt nice or would turn you down on the spot. just be bold. being turned down isnt the end of the world. try to be optimistic and hope for the best. just remind yourself you are both people and people have a need for friends and love. girls might act weird sometimes, but they just dont know what they want. just make the best of the situation. if she doesnt seem interested just move on and try something new.
2006-08-29 17:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by katie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls or Women? It really depends on the person. Some are snotty and act that way even when they're not very pretty! Sometimes the really pretty ones don't know how pretty they are, and they'll be flattered by you!
Just be yourself. Don't use corny lines. Just say, "Excuse, Miss, you look beautiful today," or something simple. Then ask if you can give them YOUR number or email address. I personally don't like to give out my number, so I'd rather get the guy's number.
2006-08-29 17:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might just be going about it the wrong way...first of all, to be brutally honest, girls arent gonna want to talk to someone who is very shy. girls look for confidence...but not *********.
ex. confidence would be if you went up to a girl and said "hello, how are you doing....i like your..." and then give her a compliment, great conversation starter, then later on, ask her if she's in a relationship...then you know she's availible
ex. ********* would be if you went up to a girl and said "ay come here" first of all, girls do reply to dickheads. Also 'ay' is somewhat derogatory. but girls love confidence...even if you really arent confident, just pretent....honestly, we'll fall for it!
but dont be shy, you gotta come out the bx sooner or later....remember...CONFIDENCE. good luck!
2006-08-29 17:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep approaching as many girls as possible for practice
2006-08-29 16:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. You have nothing to lose. :)
2006-08-29 16:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call barbieQ
2006-08-29 17:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋