No nagging..
Sexually liberated..
Supportive..
If your husband does the same.. Everything will be fine..
:-)
2006-08-29 16:43:52
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answer #1
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answered by Andreba 4
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the answer depends on your position. Do you stay home or work? If you stay home it is y opinion that you should manage the house and in the future the children. It is nice to have dinner on the stove almost ready at the time he likes. I know this probably sounds like a facist pigheaded male speaking but i am a wife too and enjoy playing 50's housewife. the occasional suprise such as a shoulder rub is often appreciated. Show him and tell him you love him often not by those 3 words but by your actions. If you work then on your days off cook dinner keep the house tidy. ooo and on a lighter note spread your legs honey they enjoy spontaneous sex.
2006-08-29 16:49:41
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answered by Anonymous
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There are a lot of variables to consider, but just the fact that you asked the question tells me that you already have one of the makings of a great wife...you actually care about making your husband happy!
Generally, continue doing the things that made him want to marry you in the first place. Me personally, although I love and treat my wife with the utmost respect, I LOVE to be adored and served. I can't tell if she's just pretending or not sometimes, but who cares, it makes me feel like a million bucks! I'd do anything for her.
Probably, most importantly of all, remember that men and women think differently. The things that are most important to you are not likely to be most important to him. Birthdays, for example. It's important to me, only because it's important to her. COMMUNICATE (both ways)!
Finally, please, keep in mind that your man is not fulfilling some emotional need for closeness. He's having sex-good sex, hopefully. Within reason and physical/moral limitations, give him what he wants when he wants it, just like he likes it. That of course means you have to know what he likes... Ask-or figure it out.
Okay, one more. Men like to look at attractive women... Dress up and look cute or sexy for him sometimes!
Okay, I'm done.
2006-08-29 17:50:29
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answer #3
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answered by Leroy 5
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Just the fact that you posted question says a lot about you, and your desire to be a great wife will make you strive to keep him happy. He is a lucky man, and I hope that he in turn will try to be an equally great husband.
Good luck to both of you
2006-08-29 19:22:07
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answer #4
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answered by ncmedicgirl 2
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what do you think being a good wife is jump when he want or need a glass of water make sure his shirts are iron make sure you cook his favor dish give him the best sex tell him how much you love him be a maid to him good luck you Will need it if you try to hard you just be his maid like they say a man wants a woman in the kitchen and a whore in the bed room good luck .you will need it .am a good wife he cooks i clean thats a good wife .
2006-08-30 13:51:06
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answer #5
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answered by ? 3
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Be the Proverbs 31 Woman :
**Her Character as a Wife:
10 An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.
rare, precious
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.
trustworthy
12 She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
kind Her Character
as a Wife
**Her Devotion as a Homemaker:
13 She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.
works joyfully
14 She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.
goes extra mile to get choicest goods
15 She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.
disciplined
16 She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.
enterprising, prudent with money
17 She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.
energetic
18 She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.
good steward
19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.
diligent
**Her Generosity as a Neighbor:
20 She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
compassionate, generous Her Generosity
as a Neighbor
**Her Devotion as a Homemaker:
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.
provident
22 She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
elegant
23 Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
influential
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.
industrious Her Devotion
as a Homemaker
**Her Influence as a Teacher:
25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.
poised
26 She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
wise
**Her Effectiveness as a Mother:
27 She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
manages her home
28 Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:
praiseworthy
29 "Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all."
distinguished
30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
**Her Excellenceas a Person:
31 Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.
honored
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don't take things literally. just be wise enough to understand. if you don't understand it yet, just read the bible, pray always and God will bless you. =)
2006-08-29 17:01:25
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answer #6
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answered by ... 3
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listening to your husband! let the little things go so that when you really have an issue he will listen to you and respect your feelings. There is no point in moaning about your husband not putting his dirty laundry in the hamper, these things do not matter. Just love and mutual respect will make you a great wife.
2006-08-29 16:48:33
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answer #7
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answered by lounursey 2
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You need to understand that marriage is a lot of work. You have to be completely devoted to keeping your marriage a top priority. You have to devote time to your husband to make sure he understands how much you love and cherish him. You need to show him (in everything that you do) that he is the only man in the world you could love so much. You need to be his lover, friend, confidant, nurse, cook, and soul mate all rolled up into one fantastic person that he could not live without.
2006-08-29 16:46:10
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answer #8
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answered by physandchemteach 7
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Read the book Created to be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl with No Greater Joy ministries. That can answer all your questions!!!
2006-08-29 17:25:56
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answer #9
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answered by breaker_1020 2
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Read the proper care and feeding of husband by doctor Laura Schlesinger
2006-08-29 16:45:02
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answer #10
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answered by patricia_hyland72 3
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Great wife means, Great Rose........
If the rose can love the soil, and maybe soil will love the rose...
And when flower comes out means your PL is good...
2006-08-29 16:45:44
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answer #11
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answered by Jason B 1
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