So Heartbroken! :(?

Question

What do you do when you give someone your heart, they break it, and never give it back?

How do you cry when there's no more tears left?

How do you survive when there's no desire to live?

Answer 1

Well unfortunately these things happen,but time does heal all wounds. Trust me honey, you will survive. Keep yourself occupied. Hang out with friends, do stuff that will make you happy again. There's a quote I once read "If you want to survive
the future, you have to let go of the past."

The same thing happened to me last year. I felt as though my heart was ripped out and stomped on, kicked to the curb. We were friends for about 15 years, together for 20 months.

I have no idea how old you are ( I'm 42) and I'm sorry for what you are going through. In my situation, because of other issues on top of what he did to me emotionally, I sought counseling. It helped tremendously. My kids couldn't stand seeing me so miserable, depressed. My daughter had said to me when we broke up "Oh well mom, it's his loss."
I had lost my husband to cancer and then lost another relationship. It won't be easy at first, but things do get better. Oh and my 'theme' song......"I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor.
Good luck to you, hang in there.

Answer 2

take your heart back,,, here is a good song to go with your question

"When The Last Teardrop Falls"

It's so hard to lose the one you love
To finally have to say goodbye
You try to be strong but the pain keeps holdin' on
And all that you can do is cry
Deep within your heart you know it's time to move on
When the fairy tale that you once knew is gone

[Chorus:]
When the last tear drop falls
I'll still be holdin' on to all of our memories
And all of what used to be

When the last tear drop falls
I will stand tall
And know that you're here with me in my heart
When the last tear drop falls

So now I'm alone and life keeps movin' on
But my destination still unknown, oh yeah
Will there be a time when I'll fall in love again?
When I was meant to walk these streets alone
If there was just one wish I could be granted here tonight
It would be to have you right back by my side

[Chorus]

Now it's time for me to find my happiness again
And the emptiness from missin' you
Will never ever end, baby

[Chorus]

Answer 3

we have all been there, and I know it doesn't seem like it now, but someone will come along and make you realize how much more you can love someone when that person offers you as much as you are giving him. When I look back to the times that I thought I couldn't go on without "my boyfriend" and I knew I would never be happy again, I am amazed at how little I knew about love and happiness. Today I can say that at the time I really believed I loved "him" but that was because I never knew what it was to be loved. You have to acknowledge your own self worth. You know that you deserve more than what your getting from that relationship, just remember that there is someone out there that is capable and willing to love you like you deserve. keep your head up girl!!! God bless you

Answer 4

You have to look outside of the box. You have to find out did that person really love you or was he just playing you. You can not just walk around and cry all the time because that's what he wont you to do. You can't let him see that your hurting you have to be strong. When you get in a relationship real fast that what happen you have to take things slow. Don't tell him you love him first wait until you see signs that tell you that he is for real about his. Just give it time it will heal.

Answer 5

You hang tough and give yourself time to get over this. Pray to God and ask him for comfort and strength and courage to deal with your pain. Take it one day at a time and try to do something that takes your mind off of your sadness. How do you survive when there's no desire to live? There is no man on the face of the earth that is worth killing yourself over. Talk to a mental health therapist if you feel suicidal. Believe in yourself. You need to give yourself time. Good luck.

Answer 6

Pray, keep busy, meet new people, take a few classes at night, talk about your situation with your best friend, and start to move forward. In time, things will get better. Just take it one day at a time.

Answer 7

when I was 17 I met a great guy,I knew he was the one.He stomp on my heart and fed it to the dogs,Now I do not trust guys for the life of me and it sucks cause I have a cool bf but I don't trust guys,They all say they won't hurt me but in the end they all do.You just need to take it day by day.take a walk,listen to music,write in a diary or Journal,talk to friends/family.

Answer 8

Take one day at a time. It takes time to get over it. Sometimes it feels like its never going to end. Then one day you will wake up and he wont be the first thing on your mind. It just takes time.

Answer 9

Time will heal. Keep positive and meet new people.

Remember it's your heart, you can always take it back.

A friend of mine buy dart and put her gf face on the wall. :-)

Answer 10

You pray, you take care of you. You just do it. No, it is not easy, and there will be no quick fix, but that is the hand you are dealt. Stay strong!!