jessica will be 18 yrs. old n November her mother treats her like a slave never has nothing nice to say to her. jessica wants to go live with her other grandmother and go to school. jessica has a 15 yr. old sis who has a juevenile delinquent record, fights all the time and lies to their mom and their mom believes everything her sis tells so in the long run Jessica is on punishment for her sisters not minding. i had custody of jessica for years, i am her mothers mom, tammy is jessica;s mom she does not have one maternal bone in her body, puts her boyfriends ahead of her kids. i bought everything they needed for school clothes and supplies.
2006-08-29 16:24:19 · 5 answers · asked by peggy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you live in Canada, she can leave at the age of 16. I had a friend that was being abused and both he and his sister ran away and lived with my family at the age of 16. Their adopted mother called the police and she was told that legally, at 16, they can leave if they wish, so she didn't end up getting them back.
What their mother is doing is considered child abuse. Save your receipts for everything you buy, bring her to court, and make her pay child support for them. She brought them into this world...time to step up and take care of them.
2006-08-29 16:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what state you are in. Michigan views 17 as an adult but Ohio where I now live it is 18. It is almost Sept. and Nov. is only 2 more months, I know it is hard but if she could distance herself from them and stick it out for 2 more months that may work. Other wise I would see if maybe she can go to the state child welfare offices and ask to be removed. As long as the other grandparents states she will take her and wants her to be there they may just do it. Please tell her not to do anything like runaway. That will only get her into trouble or even worse hurt. That won't solve anything. Good Luck!
2006-08-29 16:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by wiazardofoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, your granddaughter really can move in devoid of your daughter's permission. the problem comes even as she strikes in over your daughter's objections. it truly is an important vast difference. Your ideal wager is to attempt this as easily as conceivable, giving your daughter quite some praise and in no way letting a recognize grievance of her spoil out your lips, fairly in the presence of your granddaughter. keep it mild; declare to choose help or be there to assist your daughter mutually with her troublesome toddler, inspite of works. And keep an eye fixed on the toddler, too. frequently, the position there is smoke, there is hearth, and also you're going to ought to sharpen your parenting skills and make sensible you've were given a vigilant eye on each move she makes. you won't be able to be the doting grandma anymore; rearing youthful human beings is in no way simple and also you do not choose her to move in with you because you're prepared to be a doormat. that isn't help her or your daughter in the longer time period. So, once you've adequate impact/administration over your granddaughter to get her effectively grown up, and also you ought to finesse the problem so as that your daughter would not bypass screaming to the authorities, bypass for it. good success!
2016-11-23 13:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is legally her mothers responsibility until she is 18 unless she becomes emancipated, and if her birthday is in november, it would take longer than that to get emancipated so I suggest she stick it out for a couple months. Otherwise her mom could file a runaway report and she could be in trouble.
2006-08-29 16:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jessica can't move out until she's 18 years of age! so if that's in nov. she needs to stay put until then.
2006-08-29 16:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋