Ok is it possible for ex's to be friends after they break up and just forget about their past and all the old feelings??
2006-08-29 16:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by Christy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends onn how you parted ways and how you look at it - haved you moved on? There are some people who can stand seeing their ex with other partners some hates to see them sweet with other specie. It all depends on you, is it ok with you to be friends with your ex? But that would be veryu nice.
2006-08-29 16:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by my 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is... and if you are asking because your boyfriend is friends with his ex (or whatever) all I can say is if you become a jealous freak you will lose your boyfriend.
There is a reason ex's are ex's... but that doesn't mean they don't still respect the other person and value their opinions.
Asking someone to give up an ex or to never bring up an ex is like asking them to forget about the time in their life when they were with their ex.
this is something I've had to learn over the last few years, and it sucks, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
2006-08-29 23:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure is. My fiance works with her ex and they are still partners in a business together. My ex and I have a very good relationship and before I met my current fiance my ex escorted me to a wedding as I was dateless. We have two beautiful grandkids and are at many family functions together. As a matter of fact I have taken my fiance to the ex's parents house to show it off as it is made of field stone and we both love houses like that. Life is too short to carry resentments etc. so let the past be just that, the past. And move on with your life and hopefully you and your ex will stay friendly also. Best of luck
2006-08-29 23:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I am still friends with one of my exes. We started out as friends, stood by each other through tough divorces, then we tried to date, and it didn't work. Now we are back to like before. I know "more" about him, than just a regular friend would, but we don't let that get in the way.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 23:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm still friends with my first ex we were together for 9 years
and it wasn't all pretty somehow or another we have remained friends for 19 years now (wow)
Good luck.
2006-08-29 23:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by samsmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It happened to me.
It might take a while to forget old feelings, but as long as we have good intention to be friends, it will happen.
We don't even remember what we ate last week.
2006-08-30 00:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by gelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on where the relationship was when it ended. Also if it was good or bad. So I would say yes.
2006-08-29 23:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by blueseawale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course thats how me and my ex are
2006-08-29 23:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by The Ren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive seen it. usually time tells alll things
2006-08-29 23:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it is, will take time but yes
2006-08-30 05:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by ozcall2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋