I migrated before 1 year. So I missed my GF so much. (we couldnt meer for 1 year.Only fone calls/sms).But I keep in touch with her by fone/sms etc. Before abt 1 and half year we had some problems. But before I came those problems were ok (solved). But from abt 3 days she is strange. Again and again she reminds those to me and she's asking abt those although i have answered.
Is he mind being changed?.
What may be possible reasons?.
2006-08-29 16:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by Gayan J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your being far away from her gives her insecurities and doubts about your faithfulness. May be she thinks that you may meet or have met other girls in the place where you are right now and that you may fall for anyone of them.
Just tell her always how much you love her and commit yourself to her that you will not betray her in any manner. Tell her how much you want to preserve and protect your relationship with her that you will not hurt her with regard to infidelity.
Ask her to forget your past problems and live in the present with the future in mind. Make her realize that distance should not pose as a problem to your love affair. Stress the point that what matters most to you is that you love her and she loves you and that for you your love is one of the greatest treasures that your heart would like to hold for as long as it takes.
I don't think that she is changing her mind about your relationship. Women can easily break up with a man if she doesn't like him anymore which is not often true with men. But she hasn't done that yet. So, for as long as she doesn't let you go, believe me, she still cares for you.
But if the thought that she is changing her mind already robs you of restful sleeps, you may ask her directly is she has problems about your relationship or anything, because if there are, tell her that you want to know them so that you can help her solve them.
But in my honest opinion, I will stick to what I believe in about her being like that and that should be your target for elimination... her insecurities and doubts. Good luck.
2006-08-29 16:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the reasons are. Find out from her how does talking about it again help move your relationship forward in a positive manner.
2006-08-29 23:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not looking to resolve any problems, she is looking for an out to leave the relationship. She probably has somebody waiting in the wings now.
2006-08-29 23:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by savvyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women will always try and find things to whine about. Don't take it too seriously, she just wants drama in her life. It's a way for her to get you to talk to her. They always want to talk. If women used their mouth for good things other than talking, I'm sure we'd be much further in existence than we are now.
2006-08-29 23:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is bringing up the past problems, maybe she is feeling insecure or uncertain about the relationship. Reassure her that you care about her.
2006-08-29 23:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The English language is your first problem.
2006-08-29 23:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by madamspinner2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problems aren't solved that's why she is bringing them up. Whatever the problems were, it's still bothering her. It may be something that she can't forgive.
2006-08-29 23:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She dont want you no more she found someone else. If i can see that why cant you.
2006-08-29 23:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is looking for excuses to get back at you and then dump you
2006-08-29 23:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋