I think I might be pregnant, I just had an abortion 5 months ago, Do I tell him that I am pregnant again or do I just raise my child on my own. Don't want another abortion.
2006-08-29 16:06:43 · 18 answers · asked by rejoyce37 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You SHOULD have used birth control. Now this poor kid is going to have numb nuts for parents.
2006-08-29 16:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that you are pregnant and if he wants to be part of the child's life, let him. If he doesn't, tell him that you want the child and that he has had his fun now he can pay for it by giving financial assistance for the child. If he doesn't want you to get pregnant, he should take precautions or he should stop having sex. Tell him "You Play, You Pay"
Why should you put yourself through an abortion especially a second time? Abortion is not a birth control, it should be used only in special occasion for instance to end a pregnancy that is the result of a crime such as rape.
2006-08-29 23:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere in there i get the feeling father isn't thrilled about having kids ?? So why the 2nd pregnancy? I would tell him , but if you all don't want these kids , use protection please. Should you decide to keep this child,, I sense you won't get any help from him..whether you do or don't , your life will not be your own for a very long time. Stop and think ,,,,what's best for the child , long term as well...
2006-08-29 23:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u have sex you can get pregnant. What part don't u understand?! Even if u use birth control u can get pregnant! Do u need sex ed? Abortion is not birth control! If u don't want a baby don't have sex! That goes 4 both of u!
2006-08-29 23:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by eji7997 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's totally up to you- your decision. If you want to keep the baby, then do so- but it is a huge responsibility. Consider adoption, I'm sure you could pick the parents and even stay connected with them later on in life. My friends mother gave her first daughter up for adoption and they write letters to each other all the time. Good luck! And congrats!
2006-08-30 00:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T HAVE AN ABORTION, It is killing a innocent child. You should talk to somebody like a Catholic priest of or Minister. Mother Teresa said-"The person who had the cure for cancer was aborted." she knew this because God told her in a dream.
2006-08-29 23:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Yosef K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First make sure your pregnant, if you are tell him. If he doesn't want to be apart of it you will have to raise it yourself, but he has to give you child support. After your pregnancy please go on birth control.
2006-08-29 23:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're pregnant, and look into adoption agenices. My husband was adopted because his birth mother got pregnant with him from another man (not her husband). I am sooo grateful for this man and the children he has given me. I couldn't imagine life without him and I'm glad his mother adopted him out. That's great love.
2006-08-29 23:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him and go from there. If he doesn't want to be there then have the baby by yourself.
2006-08-29 23:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by christine1_4843 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him and if he doesn't want anything to do with you and your baby then you have to just do it on your own. It can be done! Not that its easy but it can be done.
2006-08-29 23:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by mschaka77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋