I'm confused.
2006-08-29 16:04:12
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answer #1
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answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6
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Are you kidding here? Your new "love" is an ***, get rid of him now before your kids are exposed to him. He is a control freak, why would you even for one minute allow a new men to dictate to you how you should raise your kids? I think there is a very high probability that he is at the very least still trying and maybe getting sex from his ex, there is some reason he's still in contact with her and if there are no kids involved then its sex. Also he probably recognizes that the kids are a bond between you and your ex and he is frightened by that so that means he has no real trust in your relationship and lastly he is not thinking about your kids, if he was he would not be thinking you should cut off communication with their father. Haven't your kids been through enough, do they really need to have a make like this guy?
2006-08-29 16:14:22
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answered by annie red 4
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This guy is a control freak girl. He in no way should ever be able to tell u what 2 do with the father of ur children. Ur children have to come first and without communication between u and there father, they aren't. And 2 make things worse he's still talking to his ex. what's good for the goose is good for the gander. U really need to re think ur relationship with this guy. If it was a healthy relationship then neither of u would be threatened by the exes. Good luck!
2006-08-29 16:09:52
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answered by Bella 1
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Well for starter if he has nothing to tie him to his ex (like kids) then he should move on. I have a daughter from a previous relationship and I have been married to my husband for 7 years this coming Dec. My ex is a nasty man. My husband understands this and I am fortunate now as he lives about 4 states away. As much as I hate it I do have to talk to him in regards to our daughter. The same goes for you. You will have to deal with your ex at least until your children are of age. Your current man should understand that and be mature. If he can't be supportive and won't give up his ex maybe you should move on. My husband is always with me when I have to see or talk to my daughter's father and he has stood up for me to him as well. He is always supportive and understands that I have to deal with him from time to time and he would never hold that against me. Good luck, and why is he still talking to his ex???? You should think long and hard about this guy and if it is worth being with him.
2006-08-29 16:11:23
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answered by aleynam 3
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You NEED to remain friendly and will at least have to see your ex when he picks them up from your house or vise versa. You probably don't need to call him or be "friends" with him. Just amicable, you know with minimal contact out of respect for your current partner.
What reason does he have for staying in touch with his ex?? Totally unnecessary. Sounds like revenge and/or he still has feelings for his ex that he isn't willing to let go for you.
If you feel as though you are handling the relationship you have with your ex with discretion and not making unnecessary contact (i.e., that is not tied to joint decisions about your kids), then he either needs to accept this or find someone without kids.
2006-08-29 16:10:22
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answered by K 5
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Of course there is a difference. 3 kids difference. That is plain as day. Men always try to pass bullsh*t off like its not. You have two problems here. One, he is not the right guy for you if he wants you to have nothing to do with the father of your 3 kids. If you stay with him your choosing him over what is best for your kids and second, he wants you to do things he's not willing to do himself. This guy is bad news and being that your a mom you need to make better choices.
2006-08-29 16:06:27
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answered by JustMe 6
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He is full of crap. IM sorry but come on. If he truly thinks it's wrong for you then it should be wrong for him, and therefore grow up. Regardless if you quite communicating with your ex, he should do it.
If your kids real father is willing to be in contact with your children and you know it is with there best interest at his heart... he will always be in the picture, and you should be so thankful for that.
I realize - since your relationship didn't work with him, YOU would rather not see him, but for your kids sake....
So this man your with now.... it seems he DOESN'T have your childrens best interest at heart, and you better know this before you continue this relationship.
2006-08-29 16:15:22
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answered by addicted2stamping 4
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Dump his *** and change the way you're making decisions.
You broke up with the father of your children. Then you get with some jerk that wants to control you. Who's next, Jack the Ripper? Your selection process is seriously busted. For your kids' sake, either find a guy who will put you and the kids first, or stay single.
2006-08-29 16:05:25
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answered by Privratnik 5
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Your husband must have a twin cause there's no way one person can be that stupid. Is he a moron? Talk about double standards.
You have 10X more reason to talk to your ex because of the kids. I don't see a need for him to talk to his at all.
Good luck....you're gonna need it cause you're dealing with a moron.
2006-08-29 16:31:06
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answer #9
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answered by Tony 4
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i'm so sorry this got here approximately to you and that i'm happy you're rid of him. What you're dealing with now's grief. it is common, to be predicted, and healthy, painful because it truly is. yet PLEASE do no longer ask finished strangers on the internet to touch you for my section. the internet is stuffed with people who will harm you basically as undesirable or worse than your former boyfriend. provide your self a while, and write your mom and acquaintances a observe asking to restart your relationships with them. i'm specific you will locate extra suitable help there. all of the ideal.
2016-11-06 01:55:49
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answered by ? 4
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the guy you are with now is a total complete jerk. You have to have contact with your ex if you have kids...and the guy you are with now..no, he should not be talking to his ex..there is really no need to...and he is wrong..it's not the same. you might wanna ask yourself if you really want to get involved with someone like that...I know I wouldn't..
2006-08-29 16:31:33
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answered by pepsigrlfan 3
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