i know i cant have this guy, but yet im always day dreaming about how perfect we would be together. help me get over him. now? please? hurry? hehe i mean it
2006-08-29 15:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, I've been there, especially when I was younger--high school, college, and my twenties (which wasn't that long ago!). It's a crush, and I know it can be more than that, like you think about him all the time.
Oddly enough, the less available you are by spending time w/ your friends, doing hobbies/interests, and dating other guys...you'll seem more attractive by your crush and the swarm of other cute guys out there. Huh.
Wait, have you been involved with this guy? If he's not living up to your expectations or doesn't want anything further, then move on. Trust me...not worth the anxiety. Another cute guy who'll treat you better is "out there", you just have to meet him.
2006-08-29 16:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by badsinger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If boys are doing anything to you, it's because you allow it to happen. Stop being a victim. Wake up and live. Reality is not always as pleasant as your fantasy, but accepting truth is better than allowing the whole world to pass you by. You could be missing the reall good stuff if you keep your eyes closed.
2006-08-29 23:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by bluntedandnervous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you fantasize? Is it becuase he looks good? So does a good steak. Eat that and stay in the present. What actually is is that you do not have him. Your imaginations says you'd be good togehter. It's a big fantasy. Get into the present. Stop the iomagination ubnless you are prepared to see it happen by you maing it happen.
2006-08-29 23:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into my eyes, IIIIIIIIIIIIIIII"S. You are in my power,you can have anyone you want,do not spend your life in a worthless void,take my advice and shop around.when I snap my finger you will awake and do as I told you. SNAP FINGER,OUCH THAT HURT LOL. no really there is a lot of people in this world you will find someone be choosy though.
2006-08-29 23:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to wish something we can't have sometimes.
To get over it, you got to keep busy and tired and stop thinking about him when he sneaks into your head.
Go to gym, do some sports and stop watching romantic movies.
2006-08-30 00:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by gelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boys are doing nothing to you. You are doing it to yourself. You have choices. If you are miserable and want to get over someone, Yahoo is NOT the place to start.
2006-08-29 22:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help you get over WHAT? there is NO relationship-you fabricated it all in your mind, when, in reality, things could be 180 degrees different than what you thought. either tell him how you feel and hope he reciprocates or MOVE ON, sista!
2006-08-29 23:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ALWAYS want what we don't have. Focus on how it's ruining your chances of meeting someone who you REALLY would be perfect for.
2006-08-29 23:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that feeling...
Distract yourself by doing stuff that's fun for you. Talk to your friends about it. Just letting out your feelings feels relieving.
2006-08-29 23:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by x-a-n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if u luv him tht much...then make him feel how much u like him...itz pretty tuff 2 do it..but still if u can do tht then tht guy will b surely urz...coz there is no guy hu can ignore a person if he understandz tht a gal likes him tht much...(only if u like him tht much ok??..hehe)...
2006-08-29 23:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋