My bf orgasms very quickly and afterwards can not get an erection for several hours. Is this normal?

Answer 1

It is unbelievably normal, natural, and common.

It takes a lot of practice to be able to develop stamina during sex. Tell your boyfriend to masturbate at least two or three times a week and when he does so to keep bringing himself to the edge of orgasm and then stopping until he has calmed down enough to touch it again with orgasming. You can help him with this. It will help him develop more stamina over time.

Also, be sure to let him be in control if you want him to last longer. With the practice described above and certain other techniques, it is imperative that he be able to slow down or even stop if he feels an orgasm coming on in order to postpone it.

If that does not work, you can work on getting him to rebound more quickly. In a similar method to above, tell your boyfriend to continue to masturbate after he orgasms until he has trained himself to maintain his erection or builds a new one.

Either way it is just something that needs time and effort, but can easily be conquered.

Answer 2

A guy like him doesn't really have to stop just because he had an orgasm - he should catch his breath and stop for no more than about 5 seconds and go back to stroking. I've gone 3 times without withdrawing several times - never could get in the 4th one - dammit! But have gone twice a blue million. Of course each successive time takes longer - plus I learned that once the first one was out of the way I had much better control - just take mini 5 or 10 second breaks and go back at it. It''s the best cure for premature ejaculation I've ever known or heard about. He just needs to learn his own body and stop before he's gone too far to stop. Good luck.

Answer 3

Some men can not perform or repeat imediately after a climax and this is perfectly normal. Usually then they would not reach an orgasm quickly as they did before, so you should be able to have longer sexual encounters the second time around.
Some men reach orgasms quickly because they are easly excited or for another reason, I will not go into the various reasons at this time. But there are creams that a man can use on their penis that can delay their orgasm (many have the word "delay" in their labels) In order to enjoy your sexual relations, you might spend more time in fore play and his performing oral sex on you until you reach your own orgasm and then go for regular sex.

Answer 4

Yes, premature ejculations is very normal for new comers to sex. Men have some period of time to recover as the sex drive is lost as soon as they come usually. But if you want to help him read on... this just might solve his premature ejculations and you will have more enjoyable sex with him.

What you have described is premature ejaculation. It is very common in marriages and you should not feel bad about it. There are exercises you can do to help lengthen the time of your ejaculations with your wife. Women normally take from 10 to 15 minutes to become aroused and that is what foreplay is all about.

Once you have your partner aroused then you want to keep her in this arousal state until she climaxes if at all possible. You first need to not ejaculate after 10 strokes. Here is what you can do and with your partner’s help. When you feel the urge to ejaculate pull out of her. Have her take her index finger and middle finger and place it under side of your penis head and the thumb on top of the penis head and gently yet firmly squeeze the penis head until the urge subsides. Then continue the pumping action until the urge returns repeat this over and over until you want to ejaculate. It will take several months to lengthen the time and number of stroked but you will have more staying power and your wife will be more orgasmic. Once you have done this then you can start to practice on strengthening the Kegel muscle that controls the restricts the flow thru the prostrate area. Good Luck

Answer 5

I dodged this bullet thankfully, but I imagine it's pretty frustrating, especially for the partner. It's incredibly common, though, and nothing to dump someone over, since it is a problem that can be overcome. Try extended foreplay, go slooooowly. Some lubricants contain numbing agents that help desensitize the sensitive regions a bit. Something like this could be used until his stamina gets built up. Exercising and eating healthy can have a tremendous impact on one's bedroom..abilities and on their life in general. good luck, and kudos to you for being concerned enough to ask for help.

Answer 6

It doesn't sound uncommon. You need to train him to reach orgasm more slowly. Make him relax and slow down. Also, it might help him to do Kegel exercises (they have them for women too, but I don't think you need to do them if you excite your bf this much). You should both read this article: http://www.gopilipinas.com/magazine/men-Sexuality/Sexuality1.htm
It takes good timing to make it work well for delaying orgasm, but it's worth the effort. Good luck!

Answer 7

he just might have premature ejaculation. seek a doctor and ask his opinion. if it's a serious relationship, and you wanna be with this guy for a long time, get some help. don't listen to the immature answers on here. good luck.

Answer 8

geez, don't know why folks have ta be soooo mean and can't give ya a straight answer!
YES, that is normal!!!! (that's what women call "minute men"

Answer 9

Get a new boyfriend.

Answer 10

See this article on premature ejaculation.