So I've known my good friend about six months now. We met when I transfered to a new school and we were roommates. A couple months after that she came out and told me that she was a lesbian. Shortly after that I became attracted to her. Sometimes she would flirt w/ me as a joke and say that she wanted to kiss me (atleast she said it was a joke). One day we actually almost kissed but someone walked in on us. I'm not sure how she feels about me but i'm pretty sure that I have a crush on her. What should I do?
2006-08-29 15:40:49 · 10 answers · asked by jkregger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her that you really like her. Be completely honest about it, she's already shown some interest. Just make sure you're not attracted to her simply because she came out to you. I had a girl do it to me--in short, it was painful when I realized she was just experimenting with me, because I was in love with her. Anyways, good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-29 15:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Let her know you feel an attraction to her and you want to see how far it goes. She may say she is joking with you when she flirts with you, but that could be a sign she's into you, playing around the subject of her wanting to be with you. But the only way you're going to know is to discuss this with her. Good Luck!
2006-08-29 22:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go with your feelings and kiss her.. If she dose not like you than she will pull away. Or an easyer way is to just ask her out or somthing.
2006-08-29 22:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by littleblueflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The use to be a boundary between friendship, weakness in some people just don't know where to stop.
2006-08-29 22:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious there is an attraction between the two of you---time will tell. You:ll see : - ) Lots of luck to you both!
2006-08-29 22:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me some pictures!
2006-08-29 22:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by bixdix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have a partner? anyway it's really easy for gals to convert themselves over than gays coz ... let ur feelings be known to her and see her reaction. if it's nt as expected then make clear to her it's still ok to be frenz.
2006-08-29 23:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by mystical 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her kiss you. See what happens. If it's nothing, then you'll know. If she rocks you...you'll know too. Then you can tell her.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 22:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. you said that you two were good friends. i mean maybe she was just telling you she was a lesbian, or maybe she was just biosexual.
2006-08-29 22:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! Wooohooo!!!
2006-08-29 22:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋