It took my Mom from me when I needed her the most. I would do anything to get her back, but that's not going to happen. What the heck am I spose ta do?
2006-08-29 15:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2006-08-29 15:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by George 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have ever right to be angry. I am sorry for the loss of your mother. Yes, cancer sucks! It really sucks and is a horrible disease. So many are diagnosed each day, and so many don't make it.
Recognize your anger as part of the healing process, and if you are having difficulties speak to a person you can confide in - a school counselor, any counselor, a friend, a priest.
Do not feel like you'll ever be over it - I lost my Uncle to Cancer 24 years ago (no it's not the same as a mother), but we were very close and to this day I still cry. I still get mad. Allow yourself to grieve. As difficult as it is, try to remember and cherish the good memories with your mother - no one can take that from you - not even cancer. Cancer cannot take that away.
I'm praying for you.
2006-08-29 22:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my mom to cancer 3 years ago and my father to a heart attack 5 years ago. They will never see me get married, or see my children or see me graduate. What you are suppose to do will come within. Asking us this question on the website will give you ideas, but what you will ultimately do will come from within. You can sit here and feel sorry for yourself like I did for a very long time, or you can do something with your life to make sure that other people can benifit from your loss. I went back to school to become a nurse to help people like my mom. You can do something to make a difference. If you hate cancer do something about it. Join the american cancer society, become a doctor to help find a cure for cancer. I would do anything to get my mother back as well, but time travel hasn't been invented yet, so you have to deal with today. I am sure your mother would not want you to stop living your life. Ask yourself this, what would my mother do or want me to do. That is your answer.
2006-08-29 22:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by barbiedoll5120 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear, you have my prayers and I am so sorry. My mom has breast cancer and it is a continual fight. I don't know how old you are, or if you go to church, but talking to a pastor and/or his wife or survivors of cancer groups is a good place to start as far as talking to someone. Calvary Chapel church has people you can talk to, you can do a google search to find one near you.
Tke care darlin and I will put you in my prayers. May God bless you and give you strength in this trial of life.
2006-08-29 22:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by celticwarrior7758 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry for the loss and I understand your grieves. It is inevitable that even science tries to conquer and defeat such ailment. Be strong and pray more. Keep yourself company with friends and with your loved ones to lessen the feeling of emptiness and loneliness. Pray for your mother’s peace and happiness for a new eternal life. As for you dude, be brave and keep going. Life offers such events for us to become wiser and God-centered. Live life!
2006-08-29 22:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My prayers are with you . Let all that pain out cry , scream but keep yourself safe. Hangout with possitive friends and ppl .Dont do anything like doing out drinking and driving .If you can go to college and find a cure ! I know your mom is your gardian angel .
God bless
2006-08-29 22:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you and I am sorry for your loss. I recently lost my brother to diabetes and I am very angry, but I am doing something about it. I am going to school and raising money for JDRF. All I can say is channel that anger towards something positive. Raise money for a cure for cancer. Go to school and get an education so that you can fight this disease. You are not helpless. You have to FIGHT!!!
2006-08-29 22:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine the pain you are going through right now and nothing can change that. ((((HUG))))...if you are up for it, search for some of the support groups that are out there in your area. I found it helpful after the death of my daughter to talk with others that have been through it. God Bless you....
2006-08-29 22:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry, this happened 2 u, my grandaddy has cancer and hurts me so much. just remember ur mom is in a better place and she will now help you, so if u need her, she is still there. just live life and enjoy it now and soon u will see her again. just remember, its not goodbye forever.
2006-08-29 22:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor thingl. You need to talk to someone to get your grieve out.
I'll say a prayer in Church this week for you. God Bless
2006-08-30 03:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To honor your Mother's memory by remembering everything she taught you. To seek out other in them same circumstance and offer them comfort.
2006-09-02 15:01:32 · answer #11 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋