What Do I Do?heres part of the convo.
first of all i want to let u know that i love you and i mean it,i didnt mean for this to happen but i have to say it
i dont think this relationship is going to work,we are not going anywhere,and i want to say im the problem in it,i think we shd both go our separate ways,i had to say this cuz if i dont asy it now,its really to say this,so that why i think bringing it out now is better than to wait
wow,ur really hard talking to u,i mean i thought this was something we could both talk about,i can tellu reasons why im saying this but since u dont want to then i guess its bye,even if we r not together,u r nice person and i would really like for u to be my friend,yea iknow its sounds stupid but i just cant do this,please,just talk,say something
What do I do Know.?I Really hope that hurt.
2006-08-29 15:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by Dolce&Gabbana™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also Yall Can Either Answer Nicely,Or Not Answer At All!
2006-08-29 15:17:05 · update #1
Awww, that sucks. I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know it hurts a lot! But you're going to have to move on. Obviously, she's not ready for a relationship with you. I'm sorry that you have to go through this :'(
2006-08-29 15:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your pain. You have to listen to what she is not saying. She says she "loves you", but she did not say she was in love with you. She cares enough for you not to make "you" the reason of the break-up. She is saying it "is her" and it probably is. She is saying she wants you to go your separate ways because from her viewpoint your you are incompatable.(it's kinda like wearing 2 left shoes. The fit is just not right) Things change in relationships. If you care for her accept her wishes. Don't hold it against her. Accept the new relationship she has offered as a friend. There will be other loves. Perhaps one that is a better fit for both. Be Blessed.
2006-08-29 15:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Spann M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just didn't have the same feelings as you do, or she is seeing someone else.
Move on, I know that sounds harsh, but do you really want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
It takes two to make a relationship. If one person is not putting 100% in then it will never work. The other person can not pull 200% for both people in the relationship.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-29 15:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young and have the rest of your life to live. This is just 1 relationship there will be many. I know it hurts now but you wouldn't be you if it didn't. Some people are heartless and never feel love as you do then some people are full of heart like you and therefore along with feeling the love you're going to be cursed to feel the pain. Believe it or not pain defines love and vice versa.
2006-08-29 15:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by paintressa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dolce, I don't understand really. I think that she doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't want to hurt you. Maybe she tried working things out with you, but for any reason she decided you weren't the man for her. It sure hurts, but I also think that it wasn't easy for her.
I've been in the others shoes, and I found out that I really didn't love my ex, and that I really wanted someone different. There was no way around the issue, it was not because we had a fight, a misunderstanding, or infidelity. I just didn't feel that I really loved her. I was starting to look at other women, and I don't like the infidelity, and I didn't want to marry her just because we were dating.
I tried to be as honest as I could to her, but finally, it was me, not her.
Try to keep going on. I don't think she'll be coming back :(
2006-08-29 15:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what slightly ch worst excuse ever. she ought to've aleast suggested its not you that's me i advise thats lame yet not as lame as twilight. a minimum of you discovered out the actual reason to why she left. Went to his domicile and he in basic terms did not say a be conscious. not one. changed into there for 5 minutes. His sister talked to me. What a guy lol
2016-11-23 13:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, You could say something and I don't mean to sound crass or mean, but if she says you two don't work together, then maybe you should just agree with her. What's better? Finding someone who will work with you? or hanging on to someone who doesn't appreciate your love? Believe it or not, someone will and maybe, just maybe, she'll realize what she lost.
2006-08-29 15:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she feels as though the relationship is not going the direction she envisioned. And she probably doesnt "really" want to be your friend either....shes just being polite.
2006-08-29 15:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. Trying to be with someone who clearly doesn't want to be with you is a waste of your time. Oh, and posting a private conversation on the internet for all to see is kind of pathetic and shady of you. Good job.
2006-08-29 15:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Steve Holy says it best...
she said, "i need sometime to find myself,
i need a little space to think.
maybe we should start seeing other people.
baby, things are moving way to fast for me."
so, i, i picked up what was left of my pride,
and i put on my walking shoes,
and i got up on that high road,
and i did what any gentleman would do..
i, um...
[chorus]
i got a brand new girlfriend.
we went and jumped off the deep end,
flew out to LA for the weekend,
spent the whole day, lyin' on the beach,
wearin' nothin' but a smile,
playin' kissy-kissy, smoochy-smoochy,
talkin' mooshy-mooshy bout nothin'.
man, i think im on to somethin',
yano i feel just like a kid again.
i got a brand new girlfriend.
[verse: 2]
i love it when she calls me butter cup,
laughs and says i left the toilet seat up,
she pops and tosses me a cold beer,
and says my buddies always welcome here.
when i get hungry, she takes me out.
i ride the shotgun like a shitzu hound.
my tails a waggin', my tounges hangin' out,
it makes me wanna shout...
[chorus]
wooo...
cute, cute, cute...
she likes to write our names in the sand.
shes hearing wedding bells and making plans.
shes gonna hang around a while i guess.
she hasnt even told me she loves me yet.
[chorus]
she makes me feel just like a kid again,
i gotta brand new girlfriend.
2006-08-29 15:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋