My so called BF wants to watch..?

Question

He likes me to tell him stories about me having sex w/ other guys.
He also had his friend feel me up while he watched he also wanted me to suck his friend off while he watched..HE really likes it, it turns him on in a BIG way (then I get it good) PROBLEM I dont like doing it (I hate it really, its not for me Ive tried to like it but I cant) but I do it for him anyway..any suggestions? He also started spanking me to a painful extent I actually like it until he refuses too stop when Im in pain..Damn!! I like the sex but this is too much!

Answer 1

Tell your bf that you'll watch as he blows his friend and then you spank him. Your bf has a problem, a big problem. Have you ever seen him hurt small animals?
I watched my gf give head to another guy and look what that did to me, now I want to try a guy. Maybe we can get the 3 of us together for a fun time

Answer 2

Girl, you are in big trouble, not for having sex but your boyfriend is losing control, fantasies are fun as long as each individual agrees to the fantasy and likes it. He has some real mental problems and if you stay in this relationship your self esteem and even your physical body is at risk. Men will want more and more off the wall sex, and it will get more bizarre with each step.

Do yourself a big favor, drop him like a lead balloon. You can still find someone else that really respects you ,as a woman, treats you right, and have sex. You don't deserve to be treated like a less than a animal at his beckon call. Girl, get out now, and tell him to seek professional help.

Answer 3

Sounds like your boyfriend has voyeuristic fantasies. He is wrong to even ask you to do that with his friend. Something is not quite right with him. Especially with the signs of him becoming a sadist. My advice is to leave him and find someone who will treat you right. Because it's only going to get more depraved and painful for you. He's not the only guy in the world that can satisfy you.

Answer 4

How about you find a new boyfriend?? Obviously he doesn't respect you at all. He's making you do things you don't want to do... and why you are doing them is beyond me. If you keep doing stuff with his friend so he can watch, a rumor is going to get out that you are easy.

Answer 5

If he doesnot respect your wishes and what you want to do with your body it is time for a break up it is your body he cant treat it like it is a piece of meat or his property. May be you guys should sit down and talk or even get some counceling.

Answer 6

Be honest with him tell him the truth that is the only way to go if he wont listen move on there are alot more guys out there that love sex but dont want to see you with another guy. dont do what you dont feel comfortable with.

Answer 7

If he really love you and care for you, he wont be doing this.I guess he just using you as a sex toy. Since you not feeling right then move out and find a better one

Answer 8

BELIEVE IT OR NOT SOME COUPLES DIG THIS TYPE STUFF!! THE ISSUE HERE IS.... have you adressed to him that you don't like these things? If you have and he still insists then you should leave him. If you havent then you should if he in the least way even cares about you he would respect your wishes!!

Answer 9

Move on. Once you give up your safety for a man and abandon your values and morales then your an empty shell. Do not allow him to exploit you like that. He must not love you if he is having you do soemthing that you do not like.

Answer 10

you are to much,how low will you stoop for this jerk of a boyfriend,you must like it as much as he does,and try to put the blame on him.No boyfriend is going to ask you to do that.As the Fruitcake lady would say,That is plain nasty.