My best friend and i just had a big fight and she like hates me now and so do almost all of the other kids at my school too except my other like 6 friends. and i don't really want to go to school tomorrow because we have 2 classes and lunch together so i don't know what to do. Someone help me please!!!!!! and don't tell me that "No one hates you" because serouisly everyone does hate me.
2006-08-29 14:40:30 · 21 answers · asked by &hearts * RBplayerkelcie * ♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
READ THIS AND FOLLOW THE STEPS!
Step One: Don't be scared about facing tomorrow, it's just not worth it.
Step Two: Your best friend will get over herself. At least you have more than ONE friend. At least there is still someone on your side.
Step Three: Go to school tomorrow, because if you don't, it will just make things worse for yourself when you DO go. Not going to school is taking the cowardly way out.
Step Four: I'm 14 and have already been in dozens of situations like this. For example, once I had a crush in one of the most "popular", jocky guys in my grade. I told someone who I thought was a friend, and she goes and tells the most "popular" girls in school - her name's Shaye - and thus chaos formed. Still, I went to school the next day, and whenever someone came up and asked me, or teased me about it, I just rolled my eyes, laughed and said something like, "Yeah, whatever." etc. Within a week, everyone was over it... and since I don't hold grudges, I was friends with the girl who snitched me. Oh, happy joy for all.
Step Five: "Seriously everyone does hate me". This really IS untrue, you just said before that you have six other friends that are still on your side... can't you be happy with that, let the other people ***** or spread rumours, but they will be the ones who'll end up for the worst with a crap rep because they couldn't GROW UP.
Step Six: You're not going to want to hear this, but THIS IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. Remember that. Ignore your supposed bestie, she's totally not worth it. And remember, if she can do something as bitchy as turn (almost) everyone against you, she DOES NOT deserve an apology, and was never a TRUE FRIEND to do something like that. Your true friends will be the people who stand by you NO MATTER WHAT you go through.
Hope this helps.... love electricarizona XoXo
2006-08-29 21:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, stuff like this sucks. It wont be fun but just remember that before you know it, it will be over..Something will change...a hot guy from another school might ask you out...or in two months everyone wil find your friend is like isnt that great and they will find some else to hate for a while. I know it seems like the end of the world right now and you feel all sick in your stomach when you think about going to class tomorrow but it will over before you know it...and one day you wil really not care about what others think..Though one more peice of advice. It might be good to look within and see if there was something you shouldn't have done..and for sure, it is done and over now but you can resolve to do better in the future, or act a different way. But if you can look within and feel proud about your actions that know that you are a great person for sticking to your guns and being a good person regardless of what others think.
2006-08-29 14:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am telling you a friend to a friend, you shouldn't worry about how and what people say or feel about you, and if this is suppose to be your bestfriend then she is suppose to let bygones be bygones. For one some bestfriends get into arguements and then they laugh and talk about it, so don't trip on your so-call bestfriend. Do not let that stop you from going to school tomorrow just because you have 2 classes with her and lunch together. Put it this way if she doesn't say anything to you in class tomorrow then you just ignore her and continue doing what you've been doing. See that's whats wrong with the world today they always worry about what that person feel towards them. Take some good advice from me. You worry about you, you look after you, and you take care of you and stop worrying about your so-call bestfriend, because in actual reality she is not your friend if she is treating you like that.
2006-08-29 14:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by kintrell_olia_wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy im 14 and i bet im more hated than u could ever be... every 8th grader last year when i was in 7th and they were in 8th hated my guts i would be in fist fights every day... id loose my friends becuase they r so scard of the grls i get in fights wit... stick wit ur friends and dont let 1 person and the ppl behind her get u down! stand tall and take all the punches that come at u.... u gotta stand up for urself though! stay with ur 6 other friends... i lost my best friend after 12 years! 1 fight ruind it all...... it shows u who ur real freidns are.. my school year starts next week.... all the grls from last year r in highschool now so i dont gotta worry about them.... but u shouldent worry about any1 eather!be urself and have fun with ur friends! stay confident and dont listen to what they say! see kids right now r really nasty i no i can be and im sure u can be too..... but we gotta get through it! and it will get better good luck.. i hope i stayed on topic! id tell u 2 email me but i cant give out my email adress....its not going to be easy but dont show every1 that there getting to you... its all about power! when they think they have control over u its just gunna get worse...
2006-08-29 14:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by why hello there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey get a grip on yourself, nobody really hates you, you just have to learn to find out who your real friends are. I would tell you to keep your head up, and keep going, go to school make new friends and forget does that do not want to hang with you, because you know what YOU ARE SPECIAL AND DESERVE THE BEST, Best of Luck!
2006-08-29 14:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lady is definitely no chum of yours. a authentic chum does not make relaxing of you in front of your friends. Her little trick of imitating you and then giggling approximately it exhibits all of them that that's o.k. to snicker at you. Going after a guy which you like is her way of displaying you that she is better to you. that's no longer the act of a pal. You already say that her strikes are stupid and annoying. possibly it's time to spend time with people who're no longer stupid and annoying and who fairly such as you and understand the thank you to be buddies.
2016-12-17 19:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your name monkey smiles?...Is this a pet name or do you view yourself in a negative way?...(Just asking). ....What ever is going on between you and your friend, you will get through it. Go to school hold up your head high and don't play into the nonsense, okay?....If she brings something up, talk about it as maturely as you possibly can, and if it can not be resolved then its out of your hands and you move on...P.S. God loves you, and that's all that counts!
2006-08-29 14:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh i can sorta relate Im mad at my friend and I have a class and lunch with her just let things settle down for a while and then camly talk it out.
2006-08-29 14:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if everyone hates you this much maybe you did something to warrant it. Apologize.Now.
And think to yourself that if it was just you and your best friend fighting why would everyone bother to hate you? What happened.
2006-08-29 14:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me before..i just went to school and kinda ignored them. a few days later they should try to come back...it was what happened to me. but it depends on what kind of fight you had. little things..i guess you can just ignore them for a while but if it was some other big thing then i guess you should try to make it up to them
2006-08-29 14:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Xyoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋