Is it wrong to care about the feelings of someone else, more than you care about your own feelings? Is it right to for a woman to always get her way even if the man has to lie to her. Is it OK for a man to lie to his partner so he doesnt hurt her feelings. Is there something wrong with a man who does this all the time.
2006-08-29 14:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by rightio 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it wrong to care about the feelings of someone else? No........
My opinion is the fact that you care for someone shows you are a person with empathy. It is one of the greatest character which not everyone could possess.
Is it right for a woman to always get her way if the man has to lie?
No....... It is the woman who will lose in the end, getting lost in the his labyrinth of lies and the man who will be executed for life just for lying for the sake of peace with his woman.
Is it ok for a man to lie to his partner so he doesnt hurt her feeling? No.... Men who has the mentality of the classic saying," what you dont know wont hurt you" ought to learn the it is actually " what you dont know WILL hurt you". It is a matter of time the moment of truth changes everything you hoped for.
Is there something wrong with a man who does this all the time? Oh yes there is! Great liars are great manipulators. Hope you heard of the story " The boy who cries WOLF!". Who is the one who felt miserable and alone in the end??? : )
I lived with a liar for 18 years. I had been protecting him from being in the limelight for all his lies and deception. Though with all his lies, I do not get my way. In fact, he got his way, the negative way that is.
A man should have the same rights as a woman. We are human beings with unique abilities but not as perfect as we could be. However, we have the same rights to stay on this Earth to fulfil our roles.
If you ask me what constitutes a man, he oughta be someone with dignity, honesty and empathy. When you have these qualities, everything else will fall into places.
2006-08-30 05:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by DiL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, sometimes, maybe.
It's important to take the feelings of the woman you love into account and frankly if you are married they should count for as much or more than yours do; however, it's important that you are comfortable and don't feel excluded.
If you have to lie all the time, it's time to negotiate or rethink. Good relationships are not built on lies.
2006-08-29 22:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What constitutes a man? Honesty is extremely important in every aspect of a man's life [lying?]. Maturity rather than playing a game of one-upmanship, loyalty, strength of body and character: being brave in life and in a relationship, facing your inner fears. And most of all being a loving and generous person of the heart and kindness. Something to shoot for.
2006-08-29 21:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by toolate4me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it this way.....would you like it if your woman lied to you?.....whatever your answer is, it is your own truth and you have to live with it.
2006-08-29 21:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by ice_cickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋