he likes me A LOT but i don't know if I like him. I like him until I think about the thinks he has done to put me in a bad position. But yet I cant stop thinking about him. One other thing that makes me uncomfortable is that we are best friends and i dont want a relationship to ruin our friendship. what do you think?
2006-08-29 14:36:49 · 18 answers · asked by Yo mamma ;) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say keep it friends, especially if he has done things that make / made you uncomfortable. And if you Really Really liked him, you would know, and wouldn't need to ask. So keep it friends. Soon you will meet someone that you definitely know you like. My suggestion is to be social with a variety of friends and people.
2006-08-29 14:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by anl4smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some sort of feelings for him because you can't stop thinking of him. At the same time, though, you say he's put you in a bad position. Is that the type of person you want to be in a relationship with? I think that's a personal decision you'll have to face in dealing with your feelings for this guy. Also, you need think about if it's worth risking your friendship with this guy to have a relationship with him. From my own personal experiences, I've seen both the good and the bad side of this. Just remember, if you do get together, your frienship will never be the same again.
2006-08-29 21:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by conolley_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called mixed feelings. You need to really think about what are the things you too have to offer each other besides sex. If you really like him the way you say you do then feelings wouldn't be a problem. If you wanna still continue to be best-friends with him then don't turn something good into something bad.
2006-08-29 21:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did he ask you out?
If not, stop thinking about it!
And I suggest you don't get into a relationship with him, because then if you break-up with him, you will be so akward around him!
I've been in this situation before, and still am! If you need some more help, email me! antt4ever@hotmail.com
2006-08-29 21:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tara P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurry up and make your mind up and stop p issing him about like hes a dvd u think u can just put him on and off,it aint very nice i had to let a woman down to weeks ago im 18 shes 27 and i av a lovely girl who i like more whos 19 so i dident txt her and aint bin txting her since,and she got the picture and i certanly wont get back in touch.
2006-08-29 21:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by stoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh..so its one of those best friend thing where u guys are thinking to take the next step. hmm... this is a tough decision. if he likes u and if u have the same feelings, then go for it. if not, then its better to maintain as friends instead of ruining it.. which is more worth it. it's up to you.
2006-08-29 21:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a user and knows that you really like him and value the friendship so he puts you through all types of crap. If he was really your friend he wouldnt be putting you through all that.
2006-08-29 21:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that seems complicated but u should give it a chance but promise each other that no matter what happens u can always be friends after. it makes u seem more mature to be friends after a relationship unless he was like cheating or something awful like that.
2006-08-29 21:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaaaa i think u like him. But dont go out, bc i went out with my best friend, and it screwed things up. I felt uncomfortable around him. Only go out if u LOVe him and he LOVes u!
2006-08-29 21:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably like him, but doing anything about it until you are sure will only end badly and destroy a friendship.
2006-08-29 21:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋