brother wont let me have a boyfriend and im in 8th grade, he was in 6th grade when he had his first girlfriend
2006-08-29 14:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by wolfy's_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he had agirlfiend in 6th grade im in 8th and still havnt had cause of him AND if i do have one hes going to beat him up.
2006-08-29 23:28:46 · update #1
Tell him to fu ck off and mind his own da mn business. It's not his place to run your life, and he should stop being such a hypocrite besides.
2006-08-29 14:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's just looking out for you. He doesn't wanna see you get hurt. As a guy, he knows what other guys do to girls, so he doesn't want to those things to happen to his sister. It's just what older brothers do.
Yeah, it can get annoying that he's overly protective of you, but he really just means well. Just sit down with him and have a talk with him about it. Although your brother is concerned about you, he can't totally forbid you from having a boyfriend. It's not up to him to tell you what to do. If you're afraid that once you get a boyfriend your brother will scare him away, then keep the boyfriend thing a secret from him.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 14:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brothers are just protective and he loves you. On one hand smile because you have his protection. On the other hand it does get annoying. Talk to your brother, tell he is only hindering your growth to womanhood. If he loves you as much as you think he does then he has to let you discover life on your own. He is welcome to give you his advice and you will understand that he is older and knows some more than you, but if he is not going to let you grow and learn about relationships on your own you will never be able to be smart enough to learn which man is best for you, when the time comes. Life is hard enough to learn without a over zealous brother hindering your life's lessons.
Tell him to cool the over protective act and when you need his help, you will be more than glad to ask him when the time comes. Give him a kiss and thank him for his thoughtfulness up to this time. Good Luck
2006-08-29 14:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sweet that your brother cares that much about you. He may seem annoying at times but the thing is, he probably just doesn't want you to get hurt.
Just try to tell him how you feel, that you're glad he's looking out for you but that he has to let you make your own experiences and mistakes.
2006-08-29 14:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get rid of him because he's your brother.. and the reason why he doesnt want to have you a bf is because you're a gurl and you're still young.. he's just being protective because he knows what boys can do to you and he knows that because he's a guy too.. and be appreciative that you have a brother like him.. i know it's hard but it's for you and for your future! he's just conceerned about you because he loves you.. for sure he's not telling you that but im sure that's what he's trying to tell you about the way he acts.. try to understand!! *wink* take care of yourself!!
2006-08-29 14:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by keiCh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always hiding it from him. But then again its better to wait until High School
2006-08-29 14:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by spitfire3607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a girl so he can let go of you and protect the girl
2006-08-29 14:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know they think they are ya daddy and ****.At least he have not beat your boyfriend up yet.
2006-08-29 14:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by daniellesmith1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a different province
2006-08-29 14:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋