no youre too young to deal with the baggage that comes with haveing a real serious bf. and besides, youre not getting married anytime soon so why should you be dating? to break up? to suffer through it? to get experience? its dumb. it wears you down and thats not something you need at 6th grade.
2006-08-29 14:27:49
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answered by CHANEL 2
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It all depends on how the relationship is and it also depends on the responsibility of your child. I don' see anything wrong with your child having a boyfriend just as long they are not touching each other,kissing, or doing other sexual related actions. I believe they can have a good relationship with the flirting along with nice smiles and conversations, but there are boundaries when it comes to young people these days. Some children can go too far and they can't be trusted to be in a relationship. Talk to your child about what having a close friend is really about, and give them the true before they find out the wrong way. To conclude, I think that it depends on the child. If you think the child is responsible and is mature enough to handle having an minor relationship then go for it. If you feel that your child is totally not ready then give your child more time to grow up and mature.
2006-08-29 14:20:13
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answered by Cordario W 2
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Actually no. If you DO have a boyfriend he's nothing more than a firend that's labeld as your boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend i nthe 3rd grade, but nothing happened we were just best friends. I didnt understand the meaning boyfriend until middle school. 6th grade year don't ruin it with a boyfriend, have fun with your friend before you part to different middle schools and enjoy every last minute of science camp. Boys should be last on your list while your still in 6th grade.
2006-08-29 14:18:01
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answered by Liliac 4
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My parents probably think that even 15 is too young for a boyfriend, but they wouldn't freak out if I had one. (I am 14). I think that 6th graders can have boyfriends if they are mature enough. People in my school have boyfriends when they are in 5th grade. Just use your best judgement, and maybe ask your parents or a close friend who is older for advice.
2006-08-29 14:16:45
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answered by Myself 2
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No. I think 6th graders should have friends, girls and boys. They should learn to communicate and enjoy the company of the opposite sex, but boyfriends are a bit early at that stage. You have plenty of time later. Trust me, the world will not pass you by and many people will be jealous of your decision later. Hang out with guys as friends, but don't mess up your fun by complicating it with a boyfriend. Wait till high school, guys will still be there and they will still want to date you.
2006-08-29 16:42:18
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answered by Quicksilver 3
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It depends on their maturity level and if their parents think they're mature and its okay. But if they say no, then be REALLY careful not to let them in on your little scandal. Haha. Or just defend your point of you being mature and ready.
When I see my friends at dances and they see couples holding hands and stuff, they want to cry. One time, everybody at the dance was in a close circle watching people break dance int he center and this guy had his arm around his gf. Jocelyn pointed and said, "I want that."
It was the first dance of the year, Back To School Dance for 6th, 7th, and 8th graders (all Newton Middle Schools).
My boyfriend couldn't come, but it woulda been cool showing him off, welp, at least to those I don't like.
His name is Taylor. I love him soo much. He's in eighth this year and just turned 14 on the 23rd. Our Fourteen Month Anniversery is this Saturday!! I'm almost 12 and this year I'm in sixth.
Taylor knows that I'm not into premarital sex, and its only light to moderate kissing; PDA (Public Display of Affection), and hugging. He knows the boundaries and that's what I love in him, aside from his awesome personality. He respects women and that is somehting you can't find a lot. This is being totally stereotypical, but he even said he's 'emo'. Black hair, kinda shaggy, blue eyes, kina emotional, sensitive, hates sports, and is really skinny and sometimes wears girl pants. Haha. I still love him!
PS. We also have this little band with me, Taylor, our friend, Brandon, and Taylor's ex, Amber. Soo, me and Amber are always exchanging dirrrty looks. I just smirk and smile a "Haha. Look who gots your man!"
2006-08-29 14:55:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Platonic boyfriends, as in friends who are boys, nothing wrong with it at that or any age.
During the early teens though, no one is adequately equipped to deal with romantic relationships. Girls are still trying to figure out and deal with crushes. Boys are still idiots. So that's rather young to start dating or similar. Plus, kids grow up so fast these days (most girls are expected by society as a whole to dress like the pop divas in 1st and 2nd grades) that they should be allowed to be kids while they still can before jumping into the dating world. Wait until high school if you can.
2006-08-29 14:32:45
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answered by Cinnamon 6
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I'm 14 and still not allowed to date but yeah I think 6 graders are to young to date since the relationships don't last long and "stuff" could happen that you regret... I think you should wait! :D
2006-08-29 14:38:32
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answered by [-*ashley*-] 2
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I think its perfectly fine as long as u and him are ready. I had a boyfriend in 6th grade and we went out for over a year. So good luck with that.
2006-08-29 14:19:15
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answered by Iâ?¥You 1
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Yes and no.
Yes if its just in fun and not really serious, like just hanging out with groups of boys and girls and just having fun is fine.
But if they take up all of eachothers time and theyre making out and stuff along that line.. it's a little too early for that.
2006-08-29 14:17:29
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answered by kp baby o0xo 3
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