a friend of mine (who i also have a crush on) just got dumped by his girlfriend.....he is absolutly deprressed and feeling awful...i just dont know what to say without sounding fake...i wanna show him that I care...what do u suggest i say???
2006-08-29 14:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him that you're there for him if he needs to talk, or if he needs a shoulder to cry/lean on, or if he needs anything at all. Even if it means giving him space and time to get over his heartache, if you really care about him, just do it. He will see how much you care at some point.
And don't try to make anything happen between the two of you right away as you'll just end up being the rebound girl.
2006-08-29 14:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, u want to make him feel better? then u should take him out show him a good time. U and some girlfriends of yours take him out or just u. Hug him kiss him and tell him u love him and that it's her lost.
If and when u do this make sure u do it as and in a friendly way. Just call him everynight and talk to him, tell him how nice of a guy and how sweet he is and any girl would be glad to have him as a boyfriend.
2006-08-29 14:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't use this as a time to come on to him. He's hurt, and even if you do end up with him because of the breakup, it might just be as a rebound and you'll both get hurt. Be a shoulder for him to cry on and an ear to listen to. Don't be too critical of the ex, because that sounds fake, but if it's necessary, stick up for him and don't let him beat himself up too much.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-29 14:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him how you feel for him right away because it could be a bad thing for both of you its called a rebound relationship and you both could get hurt very bad,, you could suggest going out as friends for lunch and then tell him if he needs a helpful ear or some one to talk to any time that he could call you.. good luck to you!!
2006-08-29 14:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, only time can. and now is NOT the time to make a move on him. if anything does happen, it proubly will be cause he needs comfort. be there for him and try and get him feeling better, thats about all you can do.
2006-08-29 14:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. But dont use this time to try to get with him, he will be on the rebound and it will never work......Good Luck
2006-08-29 14:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sandra♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Here, take this pu$$y, itll make you feel better!"
2006-08-29 14:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋