Recently boyfriend of many years left.Truth came out that he really started living with another woman and her children. Since his new girlfriend found out about me he hasn't been to see or support our child. She said that she doesn't let him out of her sight and is always with him everywhere he goes. Now suddently he asked to get our child for a week. I agreed but asked about arrangements while he was working. He had to get new girlfriend's input and was very vague and unpleasant. He told me our child would be home with other kids. Now the new girlfriend told me she works. I wondered if he was going to leave all the babies home alone. I didn't argue. I told him no, but that he could make arrangements with me to see our child but not take him. Girlfriend called and screemed on me. I hung up. Wouldn't entertain it.That evening he and girlfriend comes banging on my door to take my child. I asked them to leave my property. She rudely refused and wanted to fight. I called cops. He's mad.
2006-08-29 13:57:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put a restraining order on her and make sure you sue for support. Then if he wants visitations, you request that a court appointed liason be present with him and the child, as he has already put the child in harm's way by allowing this maniac woman near your child.
2006-08-29 14:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the total right thing. You do not have to give up your child until it has gone through court and he does have to let you know who will be watching your child while they both are at work. And his nasty rude girlfriend has no say what so ever! Make him go to court to see his child and tell the court your fears of them taking your child! Also if he hasnt seen the child in a while their is the matter of your childs feelings and how well he/she knows the father.
2006-08-29 14:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by lisapj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right on Sister! you did the right thing. With both of their snger up like that, your child would not have been safe with them. What you NEED is a legal custody agreement, however, so he cannot pulll this again. When my ex husband was going to have the kids over night I made sure to be very aware of the situation, hi intentions, etc, to ensure their safety. And it sounds like you did the right thing.
As with every story, there are two sides, but if either one of them were hostile, regardless of the reason, you were right to say no.
2006-08-29 14:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by jobie023 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st go to court and get child support! If they won't leave you alone get a restraining order against them. Sound like they are both a couple of nuts! (Probably not a good ideal to let them see your son unless you are there)
2006-08-29 14:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be mad! You have an obligation to protect your child, and to know who is watching him when the father and other adult is working. She sounds violent. Even if she was at home I wouldn't trust her to tend my child! Do whatever it takes to protect
2006-08-29 14:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋