well im lee im 14 and i dont have a boy friend... in my school some think im pritty some dont.... my school is screwd up though half of the grls r sluts! i think boys wont go out with me because i wont have sex or do things to them in a way that im not comfertable with... im still not ready for that.. i feel were moveing to fast... but i just dont no what to do!! i want a b/f and a nice 1 but i dont no where in my school to look! there all jerks well most of the hott 1s! i dont want a boy friend who is drop dead ugly but he dosent have to be a total hottie! i used to dress kinda boyish you no i was like a tomboy but that changed a few years ago... do boys still think of me like that because i feel so not confident in my self as much as i try... im not ugly eather!i have blond and brown hair i have blue eyes a few frekles 34 B im about 5'1 and im irish... i am not like over weight but i am an athleate so i do have a lil mussle but not like a body builder! i play softball
2006-08-29 13:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by why hello there 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i did have a really hard year last year with kids older than me and alot of rumors were always going around i just dont no what to do is it me? or do boys really like me and not tell me??? sorry i ran out of room up at the top...
2006-08-29 13:56:24 · update #1
I think you are alittle too much stressed about how people think about you. Im pretty sure there are guys who have the same interests and motives as you do. Just search alittle further!
2006-08-29 13:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mediwizard is wrong never date someone on the internet! Not all boys are horny @ss boys looking to get lucky. You just need to find a good guy for you who respects your desicions. Dont care what people say about you because your friends and you know whats true. And half the girls in my grade are slutty too. Just look around and go on a few dates with guys but you don't have to be there girl friend. Tell the boys your limits and if they don't respect that then they are not worth your time anyway.
2006-08-29 14:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st thing you have to do is not generalize. If you expect every guy out there to be a jerk, you'll wind up with the jerks. I don't care how small your school is, not everyone there is gonna be the same. Statistically, you'll find someone who fits what you want. Also, try not to fixate on one group of people. If a certain clique is made up of jerks, just look at another one. Don't sweat it.
Oh, and properly spelling your question would help a lot too.
2006-08-29 15:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK stop worryin I'm Irish too only moved her 4 months ago so its got nothing to do with that.If they are all jerks then why are you so worried.If they want you to do things ya don't want to do then don't.They are not nice fellas if they try to force you to do things.Ya sound like a lovely girl so don't put yourself down so much.As for the rumors,if your as pretty as you try to make yourself sound then its pure jealousy.So just be yourself & get on with it.there are so many other things in life a **** load worse than this.Anyway your only a kid so by the time your 16 your going to be over run with fellas.By the way,wha part of eire are ya from?Maybe ya were near me!
2006-08-29 14:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by princess joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, I'm 14, male, and I have never dated anyone. I get what your saying about jerks though. There are a lot of Jerks in middle and high school. At 14 you should not be comfortable at all with having sex. It is waay to young. Just be yourself, maybe a little more flirty around guys. So, don't worry, and just relax.
2006-08-29 14:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club.
2006-08-30 08:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcasm Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That stuff doesen't matter. What matters is getting a 4.0 GPA, getting into a good college, and doing something meaningful with your life.
2006-09-01 21:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Prince C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop caring about what other people think. and dont go looking for a boyfriend in your school. they usually suck there. i got lucky. find one at the mall or go to shows. and if your not confortable having sex..then dont..and dont let anyone talk you into doing it.
2006-09-02 08:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think about it so much and also don't change yourself for anyone either. Someone will come eventually. You just have to be patient with it.
2006-08-29 14:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~Sam~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont hav2 hav a bf you kno
2006-08-30 04:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋