Why do guys only ask ?s on here about women they want to date, and women about husbands they think are cheats?

Question

What the heck do you think happens to people between these two stages? When the men are pursing, they are miserable. Then when they catch, they get bored & cheat so the former object of their affection is miserable? Why are we humans like this & what are the solutions - if any?

I don't mean the 'only' questions, I meant the predomainent couples realtionship question, but that won't fit on a top line for the opening -sorry for the rough abbreviation causing confusion.

Answer 1

The men who get bored are found on Yahoo so that makes it seem like a predominance.

And the same with women. The ones that are Yahoo are the ones that are mistrustful of their husbands.

So it can seem misleading at times.

I trust my husband with my life. And he doesn't get bored and pursue other women.

Answer 2

That which you are talking about is basic human nature. To solve it would be painstaking. I believe that to solve this, one must not build relationships based on the physical aspect alone. relationships based on physical attraction is bound to fail from the start. Women should judge men carefully to know what their partner really wants from them. If their partner is keen on a deeper commitment,, then that would be great. But if a potential partner just wishes for a roll in the sack, then I think its time to end a doomed relationship.

Also, a physically-oriented relationship is prone to cheating as compared to a committed relationship.

Answer 3

I have not noticed that trend. Especially in the "Psychology" category. Even in the "Singles and Dating" or "Family" category, there are more questions than the ones you suggest.

Answer 4

Apparently you're blind to all the other completely non-relationship-related questions on her.