I am in 8th Grade and have no friends!HELP!?
I went to public school most of my life and then transfered in 6th grade.6TH grade was hard coming in and being the only new person,but I managed to make 4 new and great friends.Well two of my friends left that year for another school,and now my last two friends are all in the other class this year.I hate it.Nobody really talks to me anymore except some of the boys.Today was my first day in 8th grade,and tommorrow my mom might ask if I can be switched,but I doubt they'll let me,but its my last year until high.
If I do switch I have no idea what to tell everyone when they ask me "Why I'm in the other Class Now".WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO THEM?? Please Help! Best answer here gets 10 points!!
2006-08-29 13:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by KalinkaMoyaVsdu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know how you feel. ive been there
2006-08-29 13:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie let me tell you this If they are friends in the other class and you are switch, just tell them that when you were put in the other class that they made a mistake in the office and that you were suppose to be in this class all along, or tell them that you were not getting along with the teacher, So you ask to put in a diffenent class, You really don't have to give them any reason they won't remember it anyway as in a day or two there will be something else to talk about Move on and do the best you can and try to make friends even if means that you have to start over.
2006-08-29 21:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
Don't worry about it. Your should be fine with being yourself. I'm sure someone is tying to get into the situation that you are in. Sure it stinks. I can't really say that I know what it feels like because I don't. You should be fine with just being you. So what, don't transfer to anyone Else's class. People may start to act weird and funny about the whole situation so don't put yourself in that predicament. hen insetead of a few friends you will have people who talk about you behind your back. Think about it, you don't have to have 5 million best friends to be happy. You can have friends that you hang with and then you can have one or 2 friends that you'd die for. Its okay, if your bestfriend turns out to be a guy so what and who cares? People will always talk no matter what. Keep your head up, sometimes life is going to leave you all alone. You just have to deal with it and keep your head up.
2006-08-29 20:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by answerer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hated middle school too hun. Now- I teach middle school. It is one of the most difficult times you will encounter in your life.
Everyone, including you, is trying to decide what kind of person he or she wants to be. That means that no one even knows how to be friends with each other in a healthy meaningful way. Honestly, buckle down and make friends when you can.
I was always drawn to the people who were confident without a posse. Don't act stuck up- but guys and girls will be attracted (not that way) to a confident you.
It will get better. I guarantee it! Try talking to your guidance counselor or teachers. I know they might seem busy but having someone looking out for you or on your side will make it easier to sit alone at lunch or be left out of the social loop. It is so overrated!
Keep your chin up- "The sun will rise tomorrow-who knows what the tide will bring!"
2006-08-29 20:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by FLRdNk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I know exactly how oyu feel when I was in eith grade I felt the same way all of my friend either moved or were in a different class I thought I wouldnt have anyone to talk to my freinds wanted me to move well the ones I had left did but you know what I got through it I made the best I could out of that year and I made new friends now sure its hard and not that easy because these are people you rarely talk to but I did and if they asked why you switched just say its none of your business or becasue I wanted to you dont have to explain yourself to them your ,your own person
2006-08-29 20:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey be yourself that's all u can do,if they don't want u as a friend it's there lost,Well u could always lie to them and tell them what u think they want to here,U have to stand for something or u will never fit in.
2006-08-29 21:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to people and talk to them be nice to them ask them about there age and hobbies and stuff they might not all like you but there is no way that you wont have any friends if you do that also there is nothing rong with being friends with guys they wont stab you in the back as much. and dont worry if not everybody likes you i am popular and some kids dont no me and dont like me. and if they ask tell them that your schedule got changed
2006-08-29 20:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident in yourself and introduce yourself to some people in your class. If some people are a$$holes, then forget them and move on...Its part of life, i think it will be a good experience for you.
For eg, Hi, I am _____, nice to meet you...
You will find people you get along with and try to find a common interest with people...
2006-08-29 20:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Willis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweety, All you have to say,The school made a big mistake and put you in the wrong class.Thats all you need to say.
Clowmy
2006-08-29 20:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they say no, you cant transfer, then try and make new friends in the old class. and if they say yes, then tell them that your mom wanted to transfer and if they ask why, tell them that you don't know.
2006-08-29 20:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Aly Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you switched because you wanted different teachers. and don't be afraid to talk to people. Be friendly, and approach people. Laughing alone, helps make friends too. It usually works. =D Good luck, honey.
2006-08-29 20:42:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋