We have sex daily, sometimes twice. We do everything together, laugh, love, fight. We have four children, all of which are Straight-A Students, and have been married for 15 years. What concerns me is that we only knew one another for 28 days when we got married, which means we acted out of lust. Do you think this marriage will last?
2006-08-29 13:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by InternetPosterChild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't believe that I wonder why George W Bush is getting away with murder.
2006-08-29 13:21:55 · update #1
I'm sorry people, even though everything I said in here was true except the part about me "wondering if it would last," I only put this out to find someone who would pick up on the fact that a person would have to be a complete MORON to question whether or not it would work after 15 years, sex daily x2, four kids, Straight-A's, etc. I just could not imagine that people would actually take this question seriously. Maybe most people are not idiots. Maybe most people are good? Now there's a question. I apologize for playing. :(
2006-08-29 13:25:23 · update #2
I do believe you got a keeper. Congratulations!
2006-08-29 13:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jeesh, if you are going to ask a question, for better or worse, don't be so judgmental about the answers. But you are right, you have great kids and 15 years of love and togetherness, the real question is why do you want to play with this question. Marriage takes work all the time you are married. 15 years is nothing.... My marriage lasted 30 years then one ... it was over. Just because you have 15 years invested in your marriage it is not a time to feel you are safe. Just keep a mental good attitude and keep working with your husband on similar goal in life and keep your attention on him.. then your marriage will last.
To get upset because us idiots answer your question from out hearts is really unfair, and especially when you want everyone to come up with an answer you want to see, but didn't get. It is really very immature and childish. But congratulations on your 15 years.. but you are only 2/3's the way there. Keep working at it. Good Luck
2006-08-29 13:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My, my, my you do have an active imagination don't you? The thing that drew me to your question is that I have known people who only knew eachother a short period of time and have had a wonderful, happy life together. And , I've known others who knew one anotherfor longer periods of time and did not share a "happily ever" after story...Regardless , of what motivated you to pull a prank question..confessing your guilt was honorable yet now you put yourself in this odd position of asking another question...do we think good people exist? The FACT is there are more good people in this world than bad. Even good people make mistakes. And sometimes bad people hide in sheeps clothing! Lust, doesn't last...love can but only when two people are able to commit to being freinds through all the stormy weather! Good luck to you...did you ever hear the story about the boy who cried wolf?
2006-08-29 15:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one date with my guy and then was never alone long enough to say we had another date alone But we met on Labor day didn't see each other for a month and married Jan 1
I'm pretty sure you knew right away lust is a way to start
As for us 35 years two grown kids and still very happy
2006-08-29 13:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no way will it last...in another 10, maybe 15 years, it will fail, mark my words. No one listens to the until death part until they are dying of boredom...you are doomed to live this pitiful life for eternity, sex, sex, sex.....what a waste of a life when you could be fighting, arguing, divorcing...all the things that make America Great!
2006-08-29 13:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage may have been based on lust, but love grew from it. The dedication and devotion have taken root and the marriage may well last a lifetime.
2006-08-29 13:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"15 years" was definately the giveaway to your shennanigans.
Every 28 days women have a different issue to deal with. You just happened to get in at a good time and she preferred to have you around to experience it with.
2006-08-29 13:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Free Advice 4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youve been married for 15 years and the sex is good, straight a students (only come from smart parents who no how to raise kids) well then my friend i think you'll be alrite!
2006-08-29 13:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by alexdra9015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point it realy dosen't make any difference. You both arn't the people you were when you married your who you are now so forget it love your life mate,children and keep your sex life to yourself and keep on keeping on God bless
2006-08-29 13:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have lasted 15 years so far that is awesome in your situation. there are people that knew each other for years before they got married and now they are divorced. So i think you aredoing excellent
2006-08-29 13:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is you and him
15 years
Toss an emoyional rope about yourselves and do not let go.
You tell us you have an ideal life.
Rules:
Totaly honest.
Open communications.
An endurring and Intimate love.
I think you got it made!!!!! :)
2006-08-29 13:26:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋