This has not happened to me, but I want to see if people would actually say no, or be nice and say yes. I am just curious. I know alot of people out there want to do stuff because they are bored but are afraid of rejection or that thier friends will think they are crazy., so if some one asked you would you say yes. And again I have just been curious since I was young.
2006-08-29 13:08:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok cool, so most of you would say yes to kissing if your friend asked you. Thats cool, WHy are you so opposed to sex, whats all this about ruining the relationship, its just for fun, nothing to get serious about, and would you say yes even if your not attracted to the person. ANd again this isnt happening to me so stop saying go for it!! LOL
2006-08-29 13:24:55 · update #1
yes, as long as they were cute
2006-08-29 13:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by kemchan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to a kiss but definately NO to sex. Don't say yes to sex because you're bored; sex should be more special than that. And make sure the kiss stops at just a kiss.
2006-08-29 13:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by payroll genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend upon the nature of my friendship with them. Sex can be a heavy thing to put into a friendship, and it will generally have a very negative effect. I would have to say that I would not accept this offer. Kissing is one thing, I have kissed many female friends many times over, but sex is something else entirely and really adds a whole new level of intimacy to a friendship that should not exist.
2006-08-29 13:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Hell no, haha. I'm sorry, but having sex is an instant no-no. The kiss- it'd just be too weird. If I'm not attracted to the person, then I wouldn't be able to make that connection w/ them. Usually if we're just friends, then it's just that and nothing else. But then again, friends can also turn into something more. But for me, I'd highly doubt that.
2006-08-29 13:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss in my cheeks is only for friendship, thats no problem. But, kiss in my lips and sex that's entirely feelings involved. Definitely, not for friendship. If someone will asked me that I'll give not just a couple of slapped, I'll kicked his bulls. So that he would know what is the right thing he supposed to asked.
2006-08-29 13:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as my friend and I were close -- like best friends, and for me, that my best friend was female and that we both wanted to kiss and/or have sex. I don't see a problem with it, as long as neither of us were in a relationship and that doing so wouldn't hurt our current relationship. Best friends are a lot harder to come by than girlfriends. Though it seems to me that best friends of the opposite sex often seem to have really great serious relationships, so you never know I guess.
2006-08-29 13:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by snl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no and tell them I'v got no problem with there sexual prefrence but I'd rather not swing that way I have a sister who is gay and my best friend is Bi. I'v got no problems with it when I was way younger I kissed a girl but it was not cool! If your curious go for it if not do not be afraid to say no but say it kindly not to make them feel bad.
2006-08-29 13:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by smokeybandits5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Kisses of that type usually lead to sex and sex ALWAYS changes a relationship and has destroyed many friendships for many people.
Hugs are fine. We all need more hugs.
2006-08-29 13:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Free Advice 4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this friend was someone that I was attracted to and I've thought about once or twice more that necessary, then yes I would have sex w/him.
2006-08-29 13:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the close friend was my friend and then lover and then soul mate yes but close friend no cause i would whether keep that close friend then lose him over a kiss that may not lead to any thing and we start feeling embassing around each other good luck PS: is it worth losing a good friend
2006-08-29 13:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes on the kiss but i wouln't want to ruin a friendship by having sex.. at least with a kiss it doesn't really mean anything unless you want it to
2006-08-29 13:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋