objects to the funeral home (what to bring), and a planned program. Do you have any ideas or know any books or websites about this.
My mom is currently dying and I want her to have a good funeral.
2006-08-29 13:07:13 · 3 answers · asked by janie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the reason I am asking is I am thinking of gathering items to represent different events in her life and need time to gaqther them as I won't have time when she dies and will be to upset. Should I tell her I am doing this..I am trying to find ways to be loving as we don't have a very good relationship. I want to do something out of love in addition to trying to reconsile with her and seek reconsiliation.
2006-08-29 13:14:23 · update #1
the reason I am asking is I am thinking of gathering items to represent different events in her life and need time to gather them as I won't have time when she dies and will be to upset.
Should I tell her I am doing this..I am trying to find ways to be loving as we don't have a very good relationship. I want to do something out of love in addition to trying to reconsile with her and seek reconsiliation.
2006-08-29 13:14:43 · update #2
You should ask her if she wanted anything special, like certain music.
My mother was dying and she wanted certain music.
I taped pictures of my mother on a card table and a bulletin board more for myself and family and friends. They asked me how I got so many pictures of my mother since she hated her picture taken over the years. They appreciated them and it gave us good things to talk about.
I am sorry that you have to go through this hard time. I will be praying for you and your family.
2006-08-29 13:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, your Mom - once gone - wont know what kind of funeral you are having for her and I think you are more worried about this than seeing her through her last days. Worry about the funeral when she is gone.
2006-08-29 13:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
flowers, pictures, old toys that she had given you that used to be hers......really anything that means anything to you probably means somewhat her......as long as you try it'll mean a lot.
2006-08-29 13:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by ksnaucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋