My best friend is a gay guy and I'm a straight girl. I realize gay guys are flirty with girls and it's just for fun, but lately he has had me wondering if he could be bisexual. He has said before that he is curious about what it would be like to be with a girl; before we were as close as we are now he told a mutual friend he would have sex with me. When he is drinking he has gotten physical with me grabbing my chest or trying to french kiss me. Many of his gay friends have also tried making out with me when we were drinking. I'm just wondering what people think, could he be bisexual, or I guess more to the point what is with some gay guys when they want to make out with girls? How often do you think it is just fun and how often do you think there is actually some amount of bisexuality to it?
2006-08-29 13:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by annabelle p 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-08-29 13:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by flowersandpinklips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the deal. I guess. I am gay btw.
When someone is straight, and might have any homosexual tendencies, even small ones he will not go for it of course. Because society has told him so and his pride also.
When you are gay, you still have a male sexuality which means you are a bit more horny than girls are. Gay guys have already been in the strange and shocking level already, by going out with other guys, so if they have any tendency or feel like doing something with a girl is not something they would need to hide since it wouldnt be shocking at all. Everyone has a bit of attraction towards the same and the opposite sex. The matter is how much? Its not black and white. Not sexuality, it is shades of grey. And personally although I am gay, when I get drunk I catch my self flirting with girls. And I told a friend of mine I wouldnt mind having sex with her, when I was drunk. Dont worry he is not bi, he is just experimenting and picking to the other side too. As I said by being gay you have done the "strange" thing already and there is no limitation to go a bit backwards and see whats on the "normal" side.
2006-08-29 13:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, take it from a gay guy - most likely it's all in fun. I made out with my friend whom knows I'm gay and yea it was fun but didn't turn me on one bit. She made a comment about me being a good kisser and wishing I was straight and then we just both laughed.
2006-08-29 14:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound mean, but most gay guys are flirtatious,and alcohol does a lot to increase that. They may seem like the want to get in bed with you, but they may not be able to perform for a gorl
2006-08-29 15:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your pal does not look behaving like a real pal. possibly you may with courtesy tell her that (a) you're certainly no longer fascinated in any ingredient yet being friends. (b) If she keeps to pester you tell her which you your friendship will come to an end making particular she understand precisely what you assert (c) ask her why she hasn't taken no to point no. suitable of luck
2016-09-30 03:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably gay. Just a little "straight-curious." Most boys experiement when they are young.
2006-08-29 15:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey there is too much confusion out there, just don't add pressure you can't handle. About your gay friends making out with you, you said it yourself they are drunk. Straight men find their buddies attractive when they're drunk. Don't read too much into it. If it's more than just drunk make-outs, you'll find out with in time.
2006-08-29 13:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, not sure...no offense but I don't want to make out with a girl drunk or sober....Maybe you need to find new gay friends...sounds like it bothers you....
2006-08-29 13:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he is bi-sexual to me.Maybe he is more into guys,but is curious to women. It's normal.
2006-08-29 13:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my belief is that guys just pretend they are gay to get closer to women and then when they are close they say they are bi-sexual who knows
2006-08-29 14:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by teenchatter10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋