If you've ever read my questions before, you know who my sister Dorothy is.
She's in the house. She's pregnant. She's hear with her boyfriend. And she's here infront of her husband, who she hasn't divorced yet. Her boyfriend called her his wife.
Make her leave. Please.
I need to do something to get my head off of this.
How dare she get pregnant before a divorce! How dare she leave her children for drugs! How dare she get pregnant, knowing the child will be born with some disability because of her drug abuse! How dare she come in this house, and say to her three year old daughter and two year old son that she loves them!?
... my heart and head hurts... why won't she go already? The air here feels thick...
... somebody, make her go, I want to scream at her, but, if I do, she'll beat the crap out of me...
... help...
2006-08-29 12:42:02 · 20 answers · asked by Lady Myrkr 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
My stepfather and her husband let her in, to the person who suggested it...
... I feel like I'm going to explode...
2006-08-29 12:51:24 · update #1
You know, if you don't have anything nice to me, then don't.
I really don't need this right now! I'm already shaking. I can't say anything to her. Her son is autistic because of her doing drugs! Her children will have to go through the pain in school of not having a mother with them!
2006-08-29 12:55:51 · update #2
Reading this question really makes me appreciate my own life, as bad as it gets, and as much as I often hate it, so thank you for that.
I know very much how it is in your situation, because there's NOTHING you can to do to control it, even though you want to and sometimes have to.
These suggestions may seem impractical, but I don't think they will hurt you to try in your present condition.
First, look for someplace out of the house (or apartment?) to go where you can have some peace, pleasure, or even productive activity to refresh your mind.
Next, if you don't have that option, try listening to any music available, even the radio, but preferably something that provides the best catharsis for you.
Lastly, since you don't seem to have many options, I suggest buying some earplugs for the next time you feel like exploding because of her, then put them in, go to the quietest, farthest place available to you, and just rest your mind.
Answer this question, as it is relevant to your current problem and laugh at the funny answers for a tonic effect!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArFjC8AZqVvXphunhz.7jlLsy6IX?qid=20060829190136AAsOA8T
2006-08-29 15:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by STILL standing 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your going through this, maybe you can suggest a family conference about it and have a drug counselor and your family confront her on her drug abuse and how it's affecting you and her children as well as the family. If this don't work give her a ultimate get straight or or get the hell out!
2006-09-06 16:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you! You are right! She is so far past wrong ! I have no idea how she could do the things she is doing to her children!! I hope the one she is carrying will be OK! I have no sage words of advice for you. If you believe prayer will help! Just remember its the drugs talking and helping her to act like a fool! Your one good thing is the little ones are safe and they aren't with her! I will pray for all of you!!
2006-08-29 19:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must love and help her and her son.You must try hard to reunite them with her husband and get a legal married.Your sister and her husband should be responsible to their son future condition.They should acknowledge because of their wrong doings their son has a disease which need much money for healing.
2006-09-04 05:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though the rest of the family enables her to behave this way.
I am sorry that your life is difficult right now. Sending you a big hug and will light a candle with your name.
Blessings )O(
2006-08-29 20:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have read quite a few of your questions. I hate to be rude but sometimes you come across as very mature and intelligent, and occasionally not.
We all have our burdens and, yes, yours at the moment does seem a lot greater than mine.
Tolerance is virtue and realising you can't control everything is a necessity.
2006-08-29 19:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bob-bob 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are some people in this lifetime that cares about themselves more than they will ever care about their children or their parents or their siblings. Your sister needs help and lots of it. You can not help her unless she is willlig to help herself. All you can do is love her children for her and treat them as your own.
2006-09-06 15:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by CCDCC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and let live my dear.
You have no business judging your sister as you do. Right or wrong, your sister is choosing her path in life and you should be trying to help her instead of being judgemental and "holier than thou".
2006-09-06 18:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just report her to child services, they will take her kids real quick! some women dont deserve to be mothers
2006-09-05 00:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by bobbie21brady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only thing i can think of right now to do is to get help for her or try to get your parents and her husband to help you.
2006-08-29 19:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋