how do you get over some one that you loved for 2 years
(and now work together)
after learning that all this time youve been together
that he always been in love w/ somebody else?
2006-08-29 12:38:58 · 41 answers · asked by samsmom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ta Ta!!!
2006-08-29 12:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by protos2222222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, It don't sound like u need to know how to say good bye but how to forget.And sweetie there is no way to do that at all no matter if u do work together.The only thing u can do is just simple do your best to remember the good times at work.So u don't loss it and loss your job over your anger.And then when u are off work go find something to do that does not allow u to seat and think of him.Just take it slow surround your self with Friends and Enjoy whats left of the summer and move on to better people and things all together good luck
2006-08-29 12:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take you sometime to get over him but it will only be for a while so in the mean time try to look for a new love that could help you forget that asshole or just have some fun. And every time you remember about him think about what he did to you.
2006-08-29 12:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Monica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I dont Know! I havent been put in that spot yet! but I think the best way to get over a guy is go out with friends or get another guy I hope this helps
2006-08-29 12:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spruce up your resume. You definitely need to find another job. You do not need to be working with him.
He probably met you on the rebound from this person, You filled a void in his life. This same could happen to you someday.
Next time be more selective and investigative on what's going on with the guy before you start dating.
2006-08-29 12:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Time is the only thing thats going to health. Nothing anyone can say or do, short of killing this man lol, is going to help you.
I went through it this summer when my best friend decided her new anorexic whore lifestyle was too cool for me. No matter what people said to me, I didn't start to be okay with it until recently.
I hate to say this but you need to go through that rough patch, and yeah it will hurt for awhile but It will lead to personal growth and eventually you'll be much stringer around him.
2006-08-29 12:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by KLD it. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget it and move on. what you need is a one night stand. have sex with some dude no one knows about it'll get ya back out there in the dating scene where you NEED to be and it will give you a new vote of confidence too.
Good Luck girl! I'm rootin' for ya.
2006-08-29 12:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never easy saying goodbye to someone you love but if you want some sense of closure you have to do it. It won't be easy but you have to do what you have to do. In time the pain will go away.
2006-08-29 12:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by spycee 22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is too bad. Do you have to work together? That might make it harder for you. Ask him to find another job. The least he can do for your feelings after the deception he has perpetrated.
2006-08-29 12:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how good it was being friends, some people just want to stay that way, you could always find someone else.
2006-08-29 12:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adios!! but u work 2gether, wow, if u still have feelings towards that person, i'd recommend u look 4 a new job!!!
(white61water lol)
2006-08-29 12:42:21 · answer #11 · answered by Lil'MissSnshne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋