i finally did it!?

Question

Okay well I did it, I told one person I was preg. it was my best friend and it is kind of weird becuase it was so hard. I kept writing noted and tearing them up and finally i finished one, then contemplated on giving it to her..Well I did. I was scared of her reaction becuase she is so honest and right now that is not what i want, but really everything i need. She keeps calling me and i dont have the guts to pick up or call her back becuase im scared. She left me a messae just telling me she really wanted to talk.. i know i need to suck it up and listen. This is so hard...im breaking my own heart. I dont even know myself.. But now i hvae to work on my parents.

Answer 1

be strong little mama, you will be very suprised at how many people will stick by your side. Be proud of being a mommy okay!!! I do not care how old you are...you hold your damn head high and you remember who is important...your unborn child.

honey...I looked at some of your other questions. Please listen to someone who was once in your situation okay.

You are in an emotionaly abusive relationship. people do not call their loved ones stupid or ugly. They do not try to "scare" you into being with them. your boyfriend is a sick young man, and it seems as though he is cheating on you and you know it.

He is trying to gain control over you baby girl, and you are giving it to him. Please, for the sake of your life and your unborn childs, get away and fast. fall into the arms of people who really love you.

I was in a very similar relationship. It began as emotional abuse and control and it turned very ugly and morphed into physical abuse. I was scared, 18 and had a brand new baby. He told me that no man would ever accept me or my child, so my ugly butt should just stay with him.

After he beat me and cheated on me on Christmas Eve 2002, I left. It took a while to heal. BUt in the fall of 2004 I met the man of my life. My daughters father has long since disappered, but she has a wonderful replacement.

And girl.....it wasn't like he was the only one. i had a lot to choose from.

Please email me honey.

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Answer 2

I know it can be hard to tell the ones you love that you are pregnant when you weren't expecting to be. I had such a difficult time telling everyone because i was single and just out of college. I told my best friend and she got mad at me and told me i was being selfish for keeping the baby. We didnt talk for a month but then she came around and has been fine since. I think she was afraid I wouldnt be able to hang out with her and have fun like we use to. But everyone else was accepting ...shocked...but still supportive of my decisions about the pregnancy.
You should really talk to your friend beacuse it sounds like she wants to talk to you and she's probably not mad or anything, jsut wants to see how you are doing and wants to be there for you. If she was mad or upset about it, I dont think she would be calling you and leaving messages saying she wanted to talk. And you should really tell your parents. You need that support. When I was younger i thought telling my parents would be the hardest thing to do if I ever got pregnant but when I did at the age of 21 I found it much easier to tell my mom that i thought it would be. She cried with me but then told me everything would be ok and she would support me no matter what I decided. I was lucky to have a mother like that and I hope your parents are as comforting to you.
Above all, I hope everything works out for you, and don't be afraid to tell people you are pregnant. This is a very special time in your life when you can bring a new person into the world. Its seems scary now but you'll come around to understand how special it is.

Answer 3

Sweetie how old are you?...Are you over 18?....Listen no one has the right to judge you. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed about anything. If you want to tell people you tell them, and who you don't want to tell...You just don't tell....Let some people wait and see for themselves.

Answer 4

just be open and honest, they may not like the situation but if they care at all about you they will still be there and support you through...Good Luck

Answer 5

What?? uh...why is talking to your "friend" scary? Is she not happy for you? And if not....who says you can't hang up the phone?

Answer 6

just pick up the phone and face reality.

Answer 7

Why should you fear a friend. Tell her and get it over with.

Answer 8

do whats right that is ur best friend
she love u

Answer 9

if she is your friend she is your friend unconditionally no matter what . answer your phone