Personal rules that are tried and true:
1) Don't sleep with anyone right away - get to know if you actually like them, minus the sex. Also, by doing this, you don't end up in the category of what my friend's father once said: "Son, there are women you have sex with, and there are women you marry - don't get the two confused", or another time he said "you can't make a hooker a housewife".... so, hearing men say these things makes you think about how you want to represent yourself in regards to sex...
2) Be careful what you will and will not do for someone during the "dating" stage - because they will come to believe you want and will do those things the rest of your life - if you get married. So, if you make breakfast in bed for him every morning, he is going to believe you are going to do that always...
3) Get to know his friends and family - and see how they talk about and treat him... because he is either like that, or will have issues getting over how he was raised because he disagrees with it... - basically it lets you know what you are dealing with.
4) Religious morals and values are basically a good guide for the long term.
5) Be honest and forgiving... and expect the same in return.
2006-08-29 12:55:41
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answered by nuovoterra 3
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I am not religious at all, but I feel dating should be a parent thing as well. My beliefs and values are very important to me. What I mean by that, if a girl is really cute and smart and I like her but I really don't see that she does drugs. However, my mom feels in her heart she does drugs. I need to listen to my mom. However, my mom and dad don't tell me who I can and can't date. I am my own person.
The guy as well should be the one more taking the girl out and guys be respect. To those who are new age type people and you know what I mean. The guys that feel the women stays home and be our slaves while we do nothing. That is totally wrong. Everyone should help out. If my wife had a long day with the kids and stuff, even though I had 5hr at work. I shuold say honey how was your day and let me help you with the dishes and stuff
2006-08-29 12:42:55
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answered by hungry4god2 1
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never date a guy that wears a cowboy hat
never date a bubba
never date people i'm related to
if a guy get's past those three then make him wait a week or so to see if he's interested in me other than just a f...umm i can't say that word here. anyways if that's how he feels than that's all it'll ever amount to cuz i won't be going out on a date with him.
now with girls, theres a different set of rules.
2006-08-29 12:47:27
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answered by janine h 3
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first date always lunch.
It always has a definite end. Better than getting stuck with a bozo all night and avoiding all that awkwardness at the end of the night.
If that goes well, its the 3-day rule for him to call. Evening date.
The rest varies
2006-08-29 12:45:27
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answered by Anonymous
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don't go on a date in a car unless you can drive the car.
I am afraid to call boys so i wait to IM them or e-mail or they call me.
The mall witha guy is NOT a good choice they just get bored of you!
and it drives boys crazy when you play with your hair! (twittling for ex.)
And make sure your makeup look good on YOU not the supermodles!
And make sure to put on a soft smelling but srong deoderint!!
2006-08-29 12:40:01
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answered by Anonymous
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If she doesnt put out she wants a relationship
drop her like a hot fajita platter
2006-08-29 12:38:21
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answered by Xae 6
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The guy has to call my husband and get an okay with him....(evil laugh!!)
2006-08-29 12:40:57
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answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6
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no sex before or after......
2006-08-29 12:45:55
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answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6
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