i started drugs(meth,pot,herion) and cutting mysef at 8 and my family found out a year ago and my boyfriend made me stop and know she still read my journals and goes through my room i cant stand her or the rest of my family sadley to say i only love my boyfriend but how do i get her to stop going through my stuff cant she see im clean now?
2006-08-29 12:31:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry to hear that honey .I know how you fell i was there I'm the drugs and now that my family know about the act like the are alot better then me and my mom always ask me if I'm the drugs and she always holds my past again me and hangs what i did to the family . if you would like to hear more and know more about me and you would like me to help you e-mail me
2006-08-29 12:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what is the question? You have a history and the people who love you want to make sure your safe, don't be too hard on them.
BUT do I make out your 20YO by your handle?
If your an adult the answer changes. A teen :::well ask them to stop the inquisition and respect your privacy. But communicate, and be open.
Your an adult fly the coop and DO your life. Don't be a leach. WAIT how old are you?
Start at 8 (unbelieveable) and a year later your writing this.
2006-08-29 12:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
once that trust is destroyed, it takes a LONG time to rebuild it..
she loves you and is scared any little thing may make you relapse..she knows you are clean, but there is always that fear way down deep inside of her..that something could happen to make you start again..Congratulations for having a boyfriend that is tougher than drugs, and congratulations to you for listening to him..I have a grown son that is fighting alcohol addiction and I have those same feelings..please let everything be O.K. today so he won't feel the need to drink..hang in there and good luck.
2006-08-29 12:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an addict in recovery I can tell you that it takes time to earn that trust back. Be sure to put all of your best efforts into being honest all the time and eventually it will work out for the best.
2006-08-29 12:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by normy in garden city 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once trust is lost nothing can ever repair it. Believe me i know, Try to put back a broken glass... it will never regain it original shape, same with trust. u may gain a part but nothing, and i mean nothing will ever be the same...
2006-08-29 12:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the butterfly game, you draw a butterfly on any component of your physique and each time you have an urge to diminish draw a butterfly yet once you decrease as quickly as, all of the butterflies die, or positioned on a hairband on your wrist and each time you have an urge to diminish, pull it then enable it go.
2016-11-06 01:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by mcthay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to rehab.
2006-08-29 12:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sal G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't...u should try talk to her, but think what have u done to her....it' hard for her too....talk to her.......
2006-08-29 12:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant beleive u!
2006-08-29 12:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey Mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋