i live for my son but im in a abusive relationship how could i be me again i miss life i miss feeling loved!?!?!
2006-08-29 12:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by MIssy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take time for healing. When you feel strong again,you have,you need, you must to start a new life.You can not live remembering the past, or the bad moments you had been lived,every day. .Remember: every problem,have an answer,a solution.For you,in this case,is: take your time.Time is the best healer, to forget the bad times,and start a new,and better life.I know you are a very strong woman,so,you will pass this hard time; and you will get victory over this situation.God bless you,and your son,every single day in your life.You will pass this hard moment, because God is with you.Please do not worry,smile,be a happy woman again.You are a good and beautiful woman,and mother,so,your son want to have a happy mother.Good luck.Please,never cry again.Good luck.
2006-08-29 12:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't only need to lve for your son you also need to live for YOU....It may be hard to get out of your abusive relationship however I believe that the best thing you can do for yourself and your son is to end the relationship no matter what it takes. Having witnessed abusive relationships I know how you feel. You need enjoy life with your son and find someone who will love you without abusing you.
2006-08-29 12:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Foreman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen a counselor yet? Usually they can really help you out a lot. If your kid is in school, sometimes the schools counselors will let you come in and talk. There is also a way called following God. Go to a church on Sunday between 8 and 10am. Tell them your problem and they can help you or at least pray for you. It would also be a good thing for your son too. If you go to church, no mater what, you will always be loved.
2006-08-29 12:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by TK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to stay in one abusive relationship. Why you have to suffer, its not good example also for your son seeing hes parents having that kind of relationship. It would be better both of you to separate. You will lead a normal life and maybe you'll find someone who will give you a kind of love you need.
2006-08-29 12:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately leave for you and the sake of your child. If you live for your son, then there's no telling when this abusive person may start turning to him to take out his agressions. Plus, you don't want your son to mimic this behavior, and become abusive when he is older.
2006-08-29 12:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the abusive relationship. for your sake and your sons sake. go to behavioral health clinic. they will help you. and take your son with you. but most importantly get away from people who are mean to you in anyway, remember when you let people abuse you they are also abusing your child. remember that and do something before the damage goes too far. please. you are the only one who can help you and your son,.
2006-08-29 12:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the abusive relationship for yourself and your son.
2006-08-29 12:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by DVSKITTEN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are resources for you and your son. They offer counseling and will help you get on your feet. When you are healthy you attract healthy people. Get healthy and you will one day find someone who will make you feel loved for the rest of your life.
2006-08-29 12:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by dropkickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get your self and your son out of the relationship, it is the only way things will get better
2006-08-29 12:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from your partner and start a new life with your son.
2006-08-29 12:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋