i have 1 guy friend.. He is my closest friend ever. i tink if we are close to a person, there tend to be some feelings... But i am a guy!! And these few days, gone are the frequent free calls, the SMSes too... Is it because he has a new friends and he forget abt me? Whenever he talked to people, be it a guy or girl, i tend to be jealous... Am i selfish??? i just want to be his friend only... I feel like committing suicide....Why is this happening to me??? I am heartbroken, really heartbroken...... What should i do??? Can the kind people out there give some good advice??? i don know whether i like him or not.. But i am straight... Hmm.... The feeling that i am feeling now is the same as out of love.....
2006-08-29 12:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by iwanrosly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i guess you are very much emotionally attached and dependent on your friend. it may not be very healthy in the long run especially if you're a straight guy and even if you're not, your friend may just want to keep a platonic relationship with you. it could be that he also realise the attachment and dependency in this friendship and wishes to break away from such so that in the long run you both may be more happy. it is not easy to break free from such a attachement and dependency, but you have to understand that both of you deserve to get out and know more people, enlarging your circle of friends and even ultimately finding a person you may want to spend the rest of your life with. meanwhile, do not be bitter.. friends come and go in our lives, but a true friend will always be there when you need him.
2006-08-30 04:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's happening to you is more common than you think. Girls are more likely to talk about this because no one tries to stick them with a "gay" lable for being jealous and possessive over someone who's their best friend but it happens to guys too.
You're not being selfish, you're just confused and lonely and you need to start expanding your own friendships. You do like him, you love him but that doesn't mean you're not straight. A good friendship is as deep as a romantic relationship and there's the same feeling when it ends, especially when you're "dumped" from it without a lot of input and feel embarrassed about complaining in case the person thinks you're gay for him.
It's not a bad idea to let yourself be sad for a little while but you really should try a new sport/hobby/club where you can start meeting other people.
2006-08-29 12:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...if you're feeling this way you are definitely not straight! You're in love with your friend. Better stand back and back off, soldier, if you want to keep this friend at all. Otherwise, go to a gay bar and make some new friends, ok? They will love all of your attention. Godloveya!
2006-08-29 12:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get a grip on yourself he can have other Friends have a talk with him let him know you feel suicide is not the answer you will hurt the ones that love you and his life will go on go out find a friend this happens all the time but life go's on good luck to you
2006-08-29 12:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help. Thoughts of suicide are not good. I know....Seek help, forget about are you gay......if you are seek help for that too if you don't believe in it.....otherwise get a grip and find some new friends........huh, I should be talking.......good luck.......
2006-08-29 12:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say your straight but your feelings are saying other wise!..i think maybe you should reevaluate your sex dreams & see if they involve men or women!..sounds like you r in love with this guy..maybe u should think about it..being gay isnt that bad these days, hell some even think it cool!...i have a couxin thats gay & i dont think any less of her because of it, its ok to be gay!...any way u should really think on it!....good luck!!
2006-08-29 12:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just just feel like you don't have anyone and you want his friendship all to yourself... that does not mean you're gay or crazy
2006-08-29 12:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you see a counsellor ,you have serious depression symtoms. Hope you can find the help you need,
2006-08-29 12:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by angelluvswolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT COMIT SUICIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok your a guy who likes a guy thats wrong and that will not helpyou get into heaven ok so put away your feelings ok go for a girl!!!! bye :-)
2006-08-29 12:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋